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How do I talk to this girl?
05-04-2013, 01:15 PM
Post: #1
How do I talk to this girl?
I'm 18 and she is 16. She sits in front if me in one of my classes. She has recently has been talking to me. It's just small talk like 3 times so far but I never talked to her before but she said something things to me this past week. Today this guy was saying hi to me and she kept turning around and looking at me. When we were talking for like a minute she was looking right at my eyes the whole time.(apparently I have really pretty eyes) I don't know what to say to her or eventually text her cause she doesn't have a Facebook or twitter and I know one person that has her number. I'm scared to ask her for it plus I'm a shy guy! I asked my friend about her and she said that she is obsessed with this one guy. What do I do? HELP

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05-04-2013, 01:22 PM
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Take a risk, Live life! If she says "No", It will only make you stronger!! Someday you will look back an laugh about it! Big Grin

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05-04-2013, 01:29 PM
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This is a problem with most guys, but, you just have to go for it. Laziness and shyness will not work with women. You have to be confident and even slightly aggressive. They want to know you want them. You also have to be crafty with your words. Take this quote from "Dead Poets Society".

“So avoid using the word ‘very’ because it’s lazy. A man is not very tired, he is exhausted. Don’t use very sad, use morose. Language was invented for one reason, boys - to woo women - and, in that endeavor, laziness will not do."
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05-04-2013, 01:40 PM
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Face to face interactions are best I think. Before you get each other's personal info, online accounts included, you should be close with her first. Keep on making small talk, find ways where the two of you would be involved in a situation that requires interaction like group works, contests or simple questions. Respect her personal space too, don't force a moment. When you're close enough, I think that's when you can extend your relationship. When in doubt, just treat her like you normally treat others. All kinds of relationships start from that anyway. Can't really treat someone else as though they're more than just a stranger/friend/best friend/lover.

I'm a shy person too. Never had a close female friend till I got to college since I've always been to exclusive boys schools, so the feeling you get with that one girl is the feeling I get with every girl I met before. Everyone's slightly younger than me too because I had grade 7. I just joined clubs and talked to my seatmates about whatever. Did that to people who weren't my seatmates or clubmates when I was confident enough. Hope this wasn't TLDR borelots.
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