Am I too innocent and boring?

[Macy]

i'm 14, and the majority of the girls in my school are very...idk how to say it. they dress in heels, low tight shirts that show a lot of cleavage, super short shorts or tight leggings, HEELS?! and they wear horrible makeup (raccoon eyes) and have had from 3-10 boyfriends. I haven't met one person who doesn't curse, and the people in my school try to be ghetto and stuff and curse a lot.
Idk maybe i'm too...innocent. even my own aunt has said it. I always wear clothes that cover my body and don't show off any cleavage WHATSOEVER I would be so ashamed to be seen by my parents and embarrassed if I ever even did. I wear pretty clothes, but not like the girls in my school do. i'm saving heels for my high school years (16,17) and I wear light, natural pretty makeup. I don't curse and i'm really quiet because I don't like to engage with those type of people who curse and dress like that...so people think i'm weird. people mistaken me for a 7th grader. I mean, I watch shows like glee, American horror story, etc...and i'm caught up with those annoying "dirty" jokes and I'm not STUPID I just don't like saying them.
is there something wrong with me?

oh, and while almost every girl in my school has had a boyfriend, i'm embarrassed to have one!

oh and I don't have an fb, twitter, instagram, ANYTHING. I think it's a waste of time, and people are shocked and continuously bug me about it.

[roujinz3]

Dont worry, be happy.

[Question Asker]

u sound like a normal girl, they are slutes, fuck them, dont try to be one, the fact that u dont show off ur body means ur not a whore, and u dont cuss cuz u got brains, and u wear natural make up cuz u dont look like a fucking animal with it. go u!

[Sarah]

Well, from what you've said about yourself you do seem pretty innocent AND THAT'S SO WONDERFUl! Since when is being innocent a bad thing? People who aren't innocent are guilty,( which is a word which usually has a negative meaning, right?) You may be innocent, but you're not stupid. In fact, you're very mature for not giving into the pressure to conform, good for you! Be proud of your innocence, and continue to protect your purity. Good luck...and God bless :-)

[The Purple Girl]

You sound completely normal, and much better than those girls who curse and show too much skin. You do sound a little innocent, but it is a good thing in this case. The other girls are trying to grow up too quickly, so they are missing their childhood. You are 14, so take advantage of it, and don't try to act older than you are. Ignore the people who bother you about not using social networking. You should be proud that you refuse to waste your time with those websites. Soon, you will not feel embarrassed about boys, and for now, you don't need a boyfriend. You're young, so live our your teen years the way you want to!

[Theresa]

I'm 12 and the people in my class are obsessed with boys,wear WAY too much make-up and they like looking slutty.I don't even bother trying to look pretty.My hair is always in a ponytail or a messy bun and I'm always wearing hoodies and skinny jeans.I don't care if I don't have a boyfriend because boys my age like acting like knackers.I don't talk to people much because I just transferred schools and people in my new school are so different.I only leave my hair down and wear pretty clothes during really,really important ocassions,which is like once a year.I haven't worn a dress in 4 years.I barely ever wear pretty shoes.It's always high tops or sneakers for me.I'm NEVER EVER wearing heels ever in my life.The only make-up I wear is mascara,lip gloss,blusher and maybe a hint of eye-liner.I don't even bother wearing cleavage and during the summer the only short thing I wear are my shorts and I wear a hoodie on top.I know a LOT of people who are similer to me,so you have nothig to worry about :-).Some people are just different.So am I and I like it that way

[Ron]

well you sound like a mature decent person with better things to do than worry about trying to look fake and slutty or waste time on the mostly garbage social media. in short you are one of the few your age that has it together much earlier than most...but also don't miss out on some of the fun things while growing up, look close and you will find a few others like yourself, they obviously are not parading around but there are there, so be friends with them and do things with them and enjoy yourself in settings and around people you are comfortable with, best wishes

[Kieran]

No, no! There's nothing wrong with YOU! The people you seem to hang around are probably going to grow up into a life of slut-hood. You don't need to show cleavage, as I know this one random girl whom I have never said a word to besides, "All of your shirts are hilarious and awesome. Therefore, you are awesome." because she always wears the best T-shirts that are hilarious and awesome. And as for a boyfriend, I reccomend starting that in high school, but only if you'd like to, of course. I think relationships are pretty memorable, but just find a guy who's like you in most ways, but just be careful of who you decide to date... It could... Destroy you from the inside out sometimes. *sobs*
I'm very sorry that it seems like the majority of the people at your school attempt to influence you into being like... ugh, them! DON'T LET THEM WIN! You are a smart person, so don't waste it on being like those hooligans. However, cursing is something that you're just gonna have to get used to, but you don't need to do it yourself. There's gonna be quite a bit of that in high school. Also Facebook isn't a waste of time-- it is a waste of life. "But Facebook connects you with the world, so you should-" no, that's poop. Facebook is poop. Twitter is even worse. It seems that the only people of our generation that realize this are the smart/reasonable ones.
All in all, innocence is good for the most part! Just don't let it restrict you in the future. Also don't become an alcoholic. Based on what my not-quite-friends' past, that may be what a few of the people from your school are going to be like. Although I am absolutely confident that you are going to do all the right things in your own way, and that is going to take you far.