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I've only been going out with my boyfriend for three months, but I want to break up?
05-04-2013, 05:11 PM
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I've only been going out with my boyfriend for three months, but I want to break up?
I'm a sophomore premed in college and my boyfriend is a physics major. I like him a lot, and he tells me he likes me too. However, I'm on my winter break and haven't beagle to hang out or spend time with him (my parents don't like him, and don't like me hanging out with him). We weren't even able to hang out on New Year's Eve! I'm starting to think that we should break up, even though I like him so much. I just feel that there's no point in a "long distance" (his college is half an hour from mine, and he lives 30 min away, too) relationship if we aren't able to talk.

My parents are overprotective and took away my phone, so him and I have been communicating via Facebook for the past two months. I noticed that he reads my messages (Facebook notification) but he takes hours or days to respond. What's happening to us? He invited me to his New Years party a few days ago, but I couldn't go because of my parents.

Should I break up with him, or should I keep going with it, since I like him a lot and want to keep the relationship (my breaking up with him would be mainly to allow him to be "free" and date someone who is better suitable)? Thanks, guys.
When school starts, him and I don't have time to hang out because we'll be busy studying.

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05-04-2013, 05:18 PM
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Then do it!

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05-04-2013, 05:21 PM
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listen to your heart
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05-04-2013, 05:31 PM
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Talk to him about it and tell him how you feel! He may be happy the way you are and not want to change a thing so let him voice his opinion; by doing this you may not lose the relationship you want to keep!
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05-04-2013, 05:46 PM
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You should break up with him because it sounds like he's pulling away from you both emotionally and physically. It would be best to find someone more suitable. But if you really like him you should talk to him about how you feel because if you break up with him then that's it. There won't be a you and him anymore and if you still like him it will be VERY painful to go through.
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05-04-2013, 05:49 PM
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First of all, aren't you in college? Why do your parents have a say in what you do or who you see anymore? You're an adult. Put on your big girl panties and make up your own mind and don't blame it on other people. If you don't want to be with him, then don't. It's that simple.
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05-04-2013, 06:01 PM
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So you're a sophomore and your parents took away your phone? Hmmm... Maybe you should keep talking to this boy. 30 minutes si not "long distance", hon! Maybe down the road when you get your own apartment, you and him could be able to spend more time together.

You two don't have to be up each other's a$$ in order to be a couple. You two can keep up with each other on facebook and try to meet up when you can. Both of you are busy and that's to be expected during college. Don't give up on him for those reasons.. Just play things out and see how they go.
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