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noisyspace055 · 05-05-2013, 01:32 AM

I'm a freshman. It's the second semester. At he beginning of the year I became friends with this guys Danny. He is absolutely adorable and a bit popular. I decided to ask him to WPA, just as friends. So today after school my friend and I went up to him(he was alone) and I asked if anyone had asked him yet.he said no so I said "then do you wanna go with me?" he looked shocked for a second and didn't say anything.if felt like an eternity but it was probably only 1 second.I quickly added "but just as friends" and he still hesitated for what felt like forever but was probly barely a second, then he said sure.I know he hesitated and now I feel like he does not like me at all and just felt bad for me.I texted my friend about it later, the one that was with us, and said "he definitely didn't want to say yes" but instead of comforting me and saying he was just surprised she said "well at least he did" now I'm freaking out cuz I feel like he doesn't wanna go with me at all! Plus he's popular and I'm not so I feel like that might be why he hesitated. I'm just freaking out basically! Any advice or comments or idk! this is me, if it matters.I'm the one in pink. http://s1342.beta.photobucket.com/user/g...8.jpg.html
WPA= women pay all, so the girls have to ask the guys and stuff

cupcake · 05-05-2013, 01:46 AM

What's WPA?

edit- oh ok
If you're a freshman in high school and so is he, I would assume you're both about 14-15 years old.
A 14-15 year old boy doesn't have a lot of dating experience and possibly lacks "social" skills when it comes to girls.
It's very possible he was surprised that you would want to go with him, since you're very cute, which made him hesitate. He could have been confused, figuring you two were just friends, so he was surprised that you'd want to go with him. His hesitation may have been him thinking "does she like me?" Then when you added "just as friends" which could have confused him more.
He said yes.
If he didn't want to go, he would have said "maybe" or "I'll think about it" or "I'm not sure if I'm going" or "I'll tell you later".

candice · 05-05-2013, 01:52 AM

Why does it matter if he likes ya or not? You said just as friends, you're going as friends. There's no need to be so freaked out over it.

Destinee · 05-05-2013, 02:04 AM

That sucks what a butthole :[ , i'd be beartbroken. He doesn't like you or your friend is lying to you only you can tell for sure. Was he uncomfortable with you asking him that might have meant he just didn't like you like that. You can always say you woule prefer not to go with him, who knows popular people gets surprised when they get rejected . He might actually like you more. Good luck :]

Richard · 05-05-2013, 02:18 AM

When you asked him it was probably the last thing on his mind just after school, so I guess it took him a few seconds to realize what you were asking. You knew what you wanted, but he didn't. I wouldn't read any more into it than that.

Richard · 05-05-2013, 02:34 AM

I think he was probably shocked to recieve an invite and it took a minute to sink in because he couldn't believe it and then when you added 'just as friends' he re-evaluated the offer. At first he was surprised and nervous that you would ask him meaning you like him in *that* way but then he believed it was just a friendly date and it didn't mean to you what he wanted it so mean so he quickly analysed the situation and decided he would still like to go as just friends not more than friends, but I bet if you'd not added as friends you could be looking at a new boyfriend.