My ex boyfriend likes me?

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I dated this guy for four months, but we broke up because I felt like I was too busy dealing with family problems to commit to our relationship especially because he moved out of town, and I didn't see him regularly anymore.

I don't regret breaking up with him because I REALLY needed that time by myself.Sometimes I just wish that we could get back together.

He was my first kiss and my first boyfriend, and everything.

I alsways think about him, even though we broke up such a long time ago! I've tried moving on, and kissing other guys! I've tried ignoring him, I've tried acting cool about the situation around mutual friends, but right when I think I've moved on, he does sonething to make me want to talk to him or like him or go through his facebook all over again.

I KNOW he still likes me. He's told me and he likes my pictures and statuses.

The thing is, he has a girlfriend! If he liked me SOO much, wouldn't he leave her for me? I just don't get it!

I've tried texting him, and we'll talk all day, but the next day he won't text me back unless I text him first!

He used to text me ALL the time. And I don't want to be desperately texting him, so I haven't talked to him. Sometimes if he likes one of my older pictures on facebook I'll like one of his, or sometimes he'll like something or say something that suggests he still has feelings for me. It's so frustrating!

I don't think I'm in love with him, I just get that whole highschool crush feeling in my stomach everytime he notices me! Does this even make sense?

How do I move on from him?! And stop feeling like that every time I see his name on my facebook notifications or something!

Any ideas?

[dave13]

Time for you to get involved in things other than him that interest you. Meet other people who are interested in the same things you are interested in. Start building new relationships based on those common interests. You'll find that you miss him less with new people in your life who are sharing your passions.

And, on FB, you can turn down the frequency of how often you see his postings.