Is this a good way to choose who to date?

[Katherine]

I'm in a really tough situation. I met these two guys, and they're both great. They treat me well, are sweethearts, and basically I think I could totally have a great future with either one. How do I choose which one to be with? I was going to have sex with both of them and kind of use that as a way, cause basically everything else about them are amazing. Help?

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THANKS IN ADVANCE!!! <3

[Hamza]

How long have you known them for??

[Candra C]

I may be conservative in stating sex is very personal and usually suggests commitment, but you can usually tell most things physical about a guy by a kiss (of course not the size of his package but at least his level of passion). Try kissing?

[Lovely]

Having sex with both of them and using that as the deal breaker is not a good or smart idea. You're not going to be dating their penis. Sex is fleeting....It is NOT a good foundation for a relationship, so don't base your decision on that. A good foundation for a relationship is respect, honesty, FRIENDSHIP, loyalty, and communication. Sex is what comes after, like after you're married when you're with the one you're supposed to be with.
To be honest, I'd advise you not to go for either of the guys. If you can't make a decision, then neither of them must be the one. I think that when you meet the one, you just know. It's not a love-at-first-sight kind of thing, it's more of just an instinctual decision.....It's hard to explain, but I've experienced it. There have been plenty of guys, great guys, whom I've liked and whom have liked me, but for whatever reason, none of them compared to the guy that I'm with now. He just has that extra special something that I can't quite put my finger on.