Girls please give me advice on my crush! 10 points to best answer !?

[Mathew D]

Me and my crush started to talk on Facebook and I really like her ad this is my first Crush ever and I'm 17 She is 16 btw . Okay so I have also been dreaming about her lately and I want to ask her to the movies she also lives 2 towns from me how can I talk to her ? How do I ask her if she wants to hangout ? I'm new at this crush thing so please bear with me I really don't want to sound creepy when I ask her to hangout so how can i do this ?

[country girl]

the best thing to do is hang out. See if the feelings are real when you are together and go from there. Take her to the movies like you said. Don't let the distance be an issue

[britishboys]

Just ask her if she's doing anything on a certain day. That would give her the idea that you want to take her somewhere. This way it won't sound creepy. I'm a girl so I think this is a good way.

[Emily]

just make it short and to the point, call her and say "hey so I was wondering if you wanted to maybe catch a movie sometime"

[Rubby]

Try this....

1.Tell her what you are doing and suggest or imply she should come along too.
2.“I’m going to the mall to buy a few things; I wish some stylish girl would help me pick out a shirt I never know what to wear!”
3.This strategy works very well if you know anything you both have in common.
4.“:O you love sushi too?! Do you know any good places in the area?”
5.“Wait! You haven’t seen inception yet?! Ok on Thursday I will let you take me so you don’t end up watching it alone ”
6.Be confident and make it fun.
7.Choose something you both will want to do.
8.You tell her what you are doing to show her that you are not relying on her response to affect your decision in anyway.
9.By suggesting or implying she come along too you create an invitation without there being the feel of you wanting her so bad.
10.Keep in mind that being direct can work well if she is already interested but more often than not she may know little about you and require more information before being direct is a good option.
11.To better understand why this is so powerful let’s look at how not to ask someone out.