I've been boning this girl, but now her best friend (male, gay) wants me. What do I do?

[Mincing Meat]

I'm sort of in a relationship with this girl, but I'm not really keen on it. She though is keen on me. So I give her a good boning from time to time, but won't lead her on or say I want things to be serious.
(In fact I'd rather she found a boyfriend who was better suited to her, and dump me completely).

I'm a bisexual guy, but she does not know this (she has never asked).

Anyway her best friend is a 22 year old gay guy who is smoking hot. He has never met me (only seen me on Facebook), and also does not know I am bisexual. But yesterday he sent me a message on Facebook saying he fancies me and wants to meet up!

What do I do?
On the one hand I want to meet him because he is a sexy boy who turns me on. On the other hand it seems somehow (in a way that I can't articulate) to be immoral.
I can certainly see that it would annoy or even upset her if she found out?

What do you think I should do?
esmerelda, she's the one always trying to bring me along to her house. Not the other way round.
So I don't think I'm taking advantage of her - if anything the other way round.
Though you're right that she could probably do better than me

[Frankie]

You have a girlfriend, but if you want to go hang out with him...go ahead. Just don't let him do anything, like kissing or anything more sexual, until you break up with your girlfriend or she breaks up wit you!

[uva guy]

Depends on how 'sort of' the relationship is. If you are just 'dating' and not exclusive, you are free to see who you want. She might object to it being her best friend, though.

[esmerelda]

Dump her, she can do a lot better. You have no respect for her and you are NOT doing her any favors by "boning" her. I hope you fall hard for someone who will treat you the way you are treating her.

[Eddy]

I know exactly what u should do tell her if she like three some with another guy or if she likes guy on guy sex then c if she would like that cause it looks like allot of girls like gay porn allot so she might like it try dont be shy

[dib membrane]

I'm bi too. If you really like her friend more then her just breakup with her. Unless you'd rather be with her than him, but (God i'm not really helping, sorry) I've been in a realationship with this guy (note:im female) and I've been crushing on my best friend. im certain she likes girls but it's awkward to tell her about it. so if you really like him just go for him ;D!! good luck

[Mia]

You're a mega asshole jerk.

First break up with the poor girl you dick.

Second tell her best friend that your his best friends ex, if he has any sense or respect for his best friend he will leave you alone.

If he still wants your scumbag ass you two deserve each other.


Argh people like you annoy me so much your so inconsiderate.