Ex gf is seemingly having sex with, and in love with a rebound a month and a half after our relationship ended?

[RaNdOm]

My ex and I dated for four and a half years. I just learned that, now one month (could have been even sooner) after we broke up she is already seeing someone else.

She publicly goes everywhere with him on social media, and a close friend of mine saw conversations of hers where she said stuff like, "I miss you so much", "im so into you," etc. She also talks with this guy about how great their sex is, etc. It seems like she moved on so soon and entered a serious, sexual relationship so quickly. It hurts because it makes me feel like she either knew this guy while we dated or just didn't care about me at all.

I know I shouldn't contact her at all about this. I don't need advice on that, even though i want to because she always said she needed to "learn how to be alone" and now she's already banging some other dude and intermingling their families.

Do you think this is a rebound relationship, and if so, has anyone else felt that way about a rebound only to later learn that they really didn't like the person that much? I just need some satisfaction in knowing that she's hiding the pain of our break up with this and doesn't like this guy as much as it seems and will eventually regret this. Any thoughts?

[joe.attaboy]

Yes. I think you should get over it and move on. She dumped you, apparently she wasn't honest with you about wanting to be alone (or maybe she said that to not hurt your feelings...which means she isn't really bright if she's saying all this stuff on social media sites where you can see it).

You're better off without her. Don't worry about what she's doing and why, because you'll never get the truth and all you'll do is drive yourself nuts.

Move on.

[peach]

Maybe you are thinking your girlfriend is someone else when she is mimicking someone else.
DO you live in a delusion? Call and discuss it with her..

[pudding]

You should get over it and move on. Good luck

[Richard]

I'd say it's definitely rebound sex. Her comments "I miss you so much" and especially "im so into you" makes her look desperate. In fact her new guy may not be all that happy because she's coming across as super clingy.

The fact she's broadcasting it on social media could also be a ploy to make you feel bad.