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Can I fix this relationship?
10-12-2012, 01:11 PM
Post: #1
Can I fix this relationship?
I was talking to this guy a for a little over a year, we acted as though we were in a relationship but we were not official because he said he wasnt ready to be in a relationship since he had recently just gotten out of a 4 year relationship. i kinda of pressed the issue and he would get annoyed i told him how i felt about him and he would always try and keep his feelings to himself and only when i hurt him he would act and should how he felt. long story short over the summer we kinda fell off but when we saw each other at school again everything was getting back to normal and it kinda was as if nothing ever changed with us. i had just recently asked him if he wanted to be just friends or more or try again and talk again because he was giving me vibes that he was and he said that he said he had to get back to me because we had all the same friends. and so recently i was drunk and i had sex with his bestfriend. his bestfriend was telling me how he had wished we had talked before me and the other guy got together and was just confessing all this stuff to me. i regret it and the guy i was trying to start something back up with found out and he talked to me about it saying he saw me differently now. i can tell hes hurt even though he is trying to seem like he isn't. his friendship with his bestfriend is fine and they still hangout but he is doing things to make me angry it seems like and unfollowed me off of a social media network. he is hurt now but i was trying to figure out if our relationship is salvageable in any part. it's not like we were talking or together at the time and he wasn't being clear on what he wanted... any suggestions?

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10-12-2012, 01:19 PM
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JUST GIVE HIM TIME, TRY TO TALK TO HIM BUT DON'T BRING THE SUBJECT OF WHAT ALL HAPPENED UP, IT JUST MIGHT MAKE THE SITUATION WORSE THAN IT ACTUALLY IS....ANYWAYS TRY TO LET HIM KNOW OVER TIME THAT YOU WERE DRUNK....PEOPLE NEVER MAKE GOOD DECISIONS WHEN THEY ARE DRUNK...AND THAT YOU WANT HIM, NOT THAT OTHER GUY.

I'M STILL TRYING TO GET A GUY BACK ON MY GOOD SIDE...I LOVE HIM SO MUCH BUT WITH ME DATING THIS OTHER GUY WHEN I WAS VERTUALLY DATING HIM, IT BROKE HIS HEART AND HE MIGHT NOT EVER FORGIVE ME....ME && YOU HAVE DIFFERENT PROBLEMS....

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