really would love to know what I can do?

[Ashley Silva]

Okay so my brother REFUSES to talk to me because of his past I guess. I haven't seen him since we were kids he's 23 now. I was just wondering what if anything I can do? I know he lives in California but I don't know what city. He hasn't spoken to anyone else in the family except his dad. (we are half siblings) so at this point I am lost. He hasn't responded to any of my messages or added me on facebook so I don't know what to do. I don't really want to leave him alone but I don't want to act like a stocker either. Someone help me on this and if you have experiance on this please feel free to share. Thanks

[Chomp]

Well, what exactly did you do to him? If you seriously interrupted his life, it's his decision as to whether he wants you to be a part of his life. It could be harmful to him (psychologically) to have you around as it may stir up those feelings from if/when you did something to him.

I think what you should do right now is dig deeper within yourself - why is it so important to you to talk to him? What is driving you to seek him out when he does not want a relationship with you?