I keep wanting to go on my ex boyfriends Facebook.?

[Margaret]

Well I'm 16 and he's 17 and we broke up a week ago today. We were together for 3 months but I really loved him and I felt like he really loved me. He would tell me amazing things like how in the love of his life and he wants to hold onto me and never let go etc.
We had broken up 2 other times in the past (him breaking up with me) but both times he came crawling back the next day. Well he's been acting weird ever since he's been with his friend who's visiting and I think that was a big part of why we broke up.
I tried getting him back (he basically dumped me for no reason) but after every attempt to offer my love, he just flat out ignored me. So I started going on his Facebook profile like multiple times an hour to see what he posted.
He's with his friend out of state right now visiting his friends extended family and I saw on his tumblr yesterday morning that he had written about this romance he's having with a girl who lives up there (where he's visiting). His friends relative I think. And telling her practically all the same stuff he told me. Like this in depth love letter. As if his relationship with me never existed.
I've been a Facebook addict for years haha going on everyday but yesterday after I saw the love letter I deactivated my Facebook so I wouldn't be tempted to go look at his page. Now I'm having thoughts that I want to log back in and go stalk his page but I know it's not what I want! I know I shouldn't. How do I get these thoughts to go away and to not log into my Facebook?

[Kermit]

I know the feeling. My ex GF dropped me and was dating a new guy almost instantly. And recently i saw on her FB page that she is saying the same stuff about her new BF as she did about me. I blocked her FB and phone number and any way of contacting her for my own good.

The thing to realize about this kind of thing is that your ex BF and my ex GF are in a rebound relationship that will not last. They are simply trying to suppress their emotions by finding a new person to be overly lovey dovey with and its extremely unhealthy. The relationship will die down once they realize they rushed into it to fast. The best course of action for you, coming from my related experience, is to just forget about him. He obviously is a mean person who doesnt have his priorities straight and someone like you who is passionate and caring about him shouldnt have to suffer.

Like i said i know exactly how you feel and it really hurts. But it will get better with time.