I'm still in love with my ex, but I hate him?

[Jess]

It's been almost 5 months since we broke up, basically he dumped. He had different priorities going on and I wasn't one of them. He had liked me for four years and then we dated for 10 months and after that I guess he had enough of me.
He hasn't talked to me since. I saw him on the bus a few weeks ago, he sorta smiled at me, but other than that he defiantly avoided me (we got off at the same stop, he took off in the other direction.) It makes me mad he didn't have the decency to stop and say hello. On Facebook he posts and likes all this crap that appears on my news feed and well that gets me more mad. I'm so bitter. I hate his guts for doing what he did to me, but I still love him and I can't get fully over him. What to do?
I'm 19

[Leo]

Make up your mind do you love him or not? Does he love you?

[cOoLgIrL]

life is mean. i know. similar situation happened to me except we never dated damn it.

[The Heartbreak Kid]

There's a fine line between love and hate (I would know) . As for what to do try talking to him again and see if that spark it still there.
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[Sarah]

Same thing happened to me. We talked about it and I got loser and am over it.

[Life Coach!]

5 months is a long time to carry around hate. You know he doesn't want to be with you so what is it that's stopping you from moving on? It's his decision whether or not he wants to say hello to you so why would you decide to be mad at him for this?

When you spend time reading into what his behaviour towards you means (he smiled, he avoided me, he likes things that appear on my Facebook news feed...), you will keep finding it difficult to move on. Do you believe that he somehow feels how much you hate him and that he's suffering because of this? If he wanted to be with you, it's possible that your feelings would affect him. In this case, you know he's moved on so the reality is that it's unlikely that he cares how you feel. When you decide to feel hate, anger and bitterness (all negative emotions), the only person it really affects is you.

When someone breaks up with you, it's easy to start lacking self-confidence, self-esteem and self-love if you don't feel that you were good enough. Maybe it would help you to focus on ways to improve how you feel about yourself and learn to let him go in the process (blocking him from your Facebook feed is something you could start with) and remembering that he isn't responsible for how you choose to feel.

I hope things work out for you!