I have no social life and feel jealous of those who do?

[Crystalline Pearl]

I really have no friends..I have few people who'll say hi if they walk past me but real friends or anyone who actually cares?Nope.When I see people's pics on facebook with their friends - having fun,eating out,etc,I feel so bothered.I'm like,I wish I had friends,maybe just one or two,I don't even ask for tons.It makes me so sad.Like I was just going through this girl's pics from her birthday -- http://m.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.4...v&refid=17

and now I feel so depressed about my birthday.Even I want to do crazy things like that.Even I want to have friends who'll do my hair and nails and take me to a dance club.My 20th birthday is in 3 days,and I'm doing nothing.Maybe I'll watch a movie,play games and go shopping,all by myself.I feel so envious of othes' lives.When I see people say things like 'I have sooo few friends' I want to smack them and tell them how lucky they are.It makes me realise how truly pathetic my life is.Now no,I don't really have a question.I just wanted to get all of this off my chest.

[SB]

It'll all be ok.friends will come along soon just be yourself and for now just live life

[Rustam]

Mate face book is not needed, I mean you make a friend on it and you'll never know them. Its all for me a pointless act, i mean yh its nice to show people your joy but i wouldn't go on it everyday.
Try to remember the fact that others are in worse positions, and well when it is you're birthday you'll be one year closer to death.
There are many things you can do, if you need a relationship try at you're age it can change anything. Get a few friends, you dont need lots, just a few good ones. Try to change, i mean if you know that your life ahead may be a crummy one, do your best to change it

[Jack]

You're about 20. A social life should be the least of your worries esspecially in this economy. Try meeting someone... Online or just at a store. Start a relationship. At 20 it's the first step to a future. But if you're going to collage (which is a better route) then WORRY ABOUT THAT! You're friends or the friends you don't have are starting a life while you're worried about not having much of them to talk to. Making friends is easy. Facebook is the easy way and if you can't make local friends through Facebook then you got something going on Good luck and Merry Christmas!

[Charlotte]

Hi, I feel your pain. I used to be like that and even now, when I look on Facebook of girls putting up pics of each other I get a little jealous. If you want to make friends, you've GOT to mingle! Join a club, like a dance club. Having no social life isnt your fault, maybe you are just shy. Its worse having no friends in high school, believe me, I know. People always take the p*** out of you and bully you, and no matter how hard you try to make friends, people steer clear of you. At least as a 19 year old, people are a lot more mature and you don't have to put up with a***holes laughing at you for having no social life. This WON'T last forever, it will all be different in a year or two. You have to get out there and chat to people. I'd get rid of your Facebook of I was you, all it does is upset you. Though remember that being alone for a little while can do you a lot of good. You can learn about yourself. I was alone for the whole of year 9 and I learned ALOT. Maybe you could spend your 20th with your family? Friends come and go but your family love you unconditionally. Anyway, happy birthday in advance and remember that this won't last forever! Hope this helps you xxx