How to break up a possible couple...?

[anon]

Ok so i know what your probly thinking, 'breaking up a relationship is really bad'. And i agree, there are some exeptions though. So first of all there is this girl that i have had a crush on for quite a while now. So i just got facebook today and i check her likes and her wall and stuff to see what she likes. And i see that it says the girl i like is in a relationship, see the thing is i never heard her talking about this before. However i do know that sometimes on facebook people add people as brothers,sisters and partners as a joke. I am quiet upset becuase i really have been doing my absolute best to improve my appearance (eg. I got a tan, i increased the size of my chest mucles, i make sure i dont eat unhealthy, and i maintained a fit body, all for a chance to be with this girl.) Now about the guy, he is about my age exept he goes to a different school to me amd the girl, the thing is i train MMA with this guy and he has never mentioned her. Im wondering what to do, im really desperite to have this girl and i really do love her. Please help me.

[bbinqueens33]

There is a saying the way you get them is the way you lose them. You do not want to break up any relationship it will backfire on you. What you need to do is be happy within yourself. Find someone who will be proud of you just the way you are. No person is worth changing your looks for. If you want to know if she is dating ask one of her friends.

[Moe]

Leave it alone, part. Unless you want to get your $h1t handed to you......leave it alone.

[caz]

So, what you're saying is, "never break up a couple - unless you really like the girl".

No. Just, no.

[Wayfarer]

never ever try to break up someone else's relationship. How would you feel if someone tried to do this to you? Its very selfish.

[Liz]

"Have this girl" ? What does that mean and how can you really love her when you dont even date her ?
If she is in a relationship then there is nothing you can do. You say you have improved your image and life style all for her yet has she noticed you ? Do you talk at school ?
It all seems a little one sided and basically you should leave her alone, she wont like you at all if you try to break up her relationship. You really think she is going to run into your arms when you cause trouble between them both ?
Behave yourself, and move on..