Give it one more try?

[Truthhhhhh]

Is there rules to how you should act during a breakup? I want to know if I'm doing the right thing. I was with someone since 2009 he broke up with me for being a unsupportive girlfriend & a brat. I admit I wanted all his time n should have been more focused on supporting him & his areer. He is a promoter for a group of music artists so aside from going to diff. events, concerts etc (which he always took.me to) he is always on social sites like twitter spreading links n the word on the artists. We never had problem in the social media world we had that trust n plus I never take internet things too serious. Well he would always have to be on his phone responding to emails, calls, etc. I thought he should pay attention to me ): so he broke up with me for complaining to much, I apologized , cried n we got back. The next day I did the same complaining again but this time he was fed up n told me to leave the house (we lived together 1yr) because he feels he needs to.focus on his career. We been strugglin for a while n he told me this ""i love u but I have to build my empire first before I can take care of u n.give u everything you need cause when u met me.i.had it all.now I.dont" (he lost his old job he lost his car before this promo gig). So.its been 2 days n he gets on twitter EACH DAY & writes status like "I wonder if she knows how much I miss her", "No one will ever take her spot" and "I wonder if shes up right now?" Is a few. So what do I do? I feel like I shouldnt even be reading that crap. Also I do not tweet things indirectly either. Im seein someone already to test the waters n we like each other but I still love n care for my ex we have history n we almost had a child but it didnt happen,I know when its time to suck it up and move on. I dont want to ruin a possible relationship or freindship over something in the past. Should I erase twitter and just dissappear? Should I tell him I miss him back indirectly & take a chance? Does he miss me? Should I bother?

[Wayne]

Unless you are ready to change, nothing will change. The issue has to be resolved first or it is a waste of time

[Goliath7470]

Regardless of whether you want to be back with this guy or not, disappearing is the best first thing to do. If he wants to be with you, he will be asking your friends how you're doing, or even text you and ask you that question. He will be curious and want to know what's all going on in your life.

Taking that chance at this moment will only lead to what it's been the past couple times. So, have this as a test for him, in a way. If he talks to you or your friends asking about you, then he truly cares and the statuses do add up to him thinking about you. If not, then there might be something else brewing, and I would not get involved in that.

Hope this helps, and best of luck to you!