Romantic Night Advice?

[Kelly]

I am going to surprise my partner for a romantic night soon... any general advice would be appreciated! For example, what should I wear? What should I say? What should I do? I would especially like help with what I should wear. I was thinking of going very naughty (if you know what I mean!!) but what should I wear and where would I get dresses and costumes from? Thanks! And links would be nice!!!

[aha!]

I am not sure whether it's romantic or naughty. I prefer naughty myself, but it's more of a couple's thing for romantic. If you're trying to do both, have something underneath the dress.

I think it would make more sense if you did something more tailored to your partner's tastes as oppose to the conventional, what people say, etc.

We might want to get some of gender differences stuff out of the way first:
Men don't have such heightened sense of smell as women do - so the scented candles are only for you
I don't actually recall flowers being something that is necessary or being a turn on, so if you do use a flower for a romantic dinner, it's really only for decoration purposes and a gesture to show you appreciate yourself
Lighting does have an effect so turning it down to ambient is something you can do - candles at the dinner table does have an effect
If your guy is like the average Joe, sensual music will do very little, but have something soft in the background. If he happens to be the sensual type, sensual music such as those by Enya should do the trick
It's true what they say, give a man a slab of meat and he's happy; preferably steak medium rare. Of course, having said that there are times the guy will would like to have something different. Unless your guy doesn't like spicy food, spicy food freshly cooked is good. For bonus: share the plate between the both of you, especially dessert. Feed each other btw
Although it's healthy and most people who work out eat them, vegetables aren't all that favoured among the male populous. So, cut down on the veg if possible, especially: broccoli, spinach, sprouts, anything bitter or very bland when boiled, unless he is the sort that likes them
If you do a google search, you will find most of the male erogenous zones, unlike the female's, are concentrated in a particularly obvious spot. Research tips and tricks
Most guys like it fast, spontaneous, and wild. Sometimes they like it when the girl takes the initiative and lead, but go in gradually and slow if you do (take your time); some guys get turned on knowing you want it yourself. (I tend to like the woman to have both hands onto the guy and facing him whilst you lead with your back to the designated area.) Do not jump him unless he likes it. Think Mr and Mrs Smith (film) and Man on Fire (film)
Like the flowers above, scented petals are really only there for you.

Other tips:
Pick a wine that goes with the dish, not so much it tastes good on its own.
Blindfold is a typical keyword if you like the games
Dress to go on top - something that flatters your figure and body shape type. I tend to prefer something that looks similar to underwear, just for the suggestion. I prefer dresses myself, but your guy could be looking for something else. I also like heels - easy on, easy off, shows off the legs - play subtle footsie during the meal. When picking a dress, you do not need to break the bank account; something simple and smooth from a department store tends to be sufficient.
If you have an open fireplace, so much the better; if not make sure the room is warm without clothes as well as with clothes and/or with blankets. Not too hot or ridiculously cold
Smile, tilt your head at a slight angle
If you have long hair, let it down
Maintain a lot of eye contact
Maintain a lot of touching (body to body contact, not necessarily hands to body)
Do kiss sensually - lead him in if he is not the sensual kisser
Try to be lady like at the table - subtle kissing and footsie permitted; do anything you want afterwards. You can sit very very close to him and feed him whilst you are at the table if you wish, but it sets a more adventurous than a romantic tone
I prefer sitting at right angles in comfy chairs with no arms
Dial down the volume and talk more subtle than you normally would in a social situation - there's only 2 of you and whispering encourages close contact
In the bedroom does not need to be your only option
Turn off all electrical equipment other than the cooker and the music player; phones too unless you need them for emergencies
Show appreciation for what he does for you, and that you actually appreciate, and do whisper things you physically find attractive or you like him to do

The above should be more than enough, but if you need more, be specific about what you want when you message me

Hope this helps