does he really mean this? 10 points for best answer?

[drchic]

ok so me and my ex went out for a year and 2 months and i've been thinking about all the stuff he was telling me about what went wrong between us and it just hurts. he's done a lot of nice things for me in the past like taking me out wherever i wanted and bought me stuff, he treated my friends and family very nicely as well as me, he never cheated or treated me badly in any way, and he talked to me almost every day. we were ina long distance relationship since i went to college upstate and he went to college in the city and the things that really hurt me throughout the relationship was that every time i came to visit on the weekends (for 3 days), he would only come for 1 day and the rest he would use them to rest or whatever. also whenever it came to breaks, he would only visit like a few times instead of visiting as much as possible. every time i told him something that bothered me, he would think it was a big deal and not do anything about it and as much as i hated repeating it to him, he always thought it was annoying and that it irritated him and he would post it up on Twitter instead of telling me how he felt about it because every time i would say something that bothered me, he wouldn't say anything back -__-
i never yelled, cursed, or insulted him while complaining and neither did he so idk why he found it so annoying when i was trying to help him back then. we talked about it and he said he obviously made a mistake by saying those things without talking to me about it and that he asked for my forgiveness but i don't even know if i can become friends with him because what if he says things about me again even if we're not together anymore
i know it's over now and i don't want to go back to him but hey i was with him for over a year and it's not that easy to let go of someone like that. i remember when he broke up with me, the last few words he said were that he really appreciated all the stuff i did for him, he thinks i'm a great girl (he always told me that) and i deserve way better than him, and that he really enjoyed being with me more than any other girl he's been with in the past. does he really mean all of that? i'm just wondering because of the fact that he wrote how irritating i was on Twitter every time i complained to him about something

[Destiny]

I have an on going relationship for over 2 years.. And from my personal experience. I take it he's telling the truth. Take it from me, trust me. Men are confusing. And they intend to act like they don't need you or are better than you on a social network. Even though they don't mean to, or don't realize its hurtful. its just their pride. they act like they have something to prove to everyone else. Trust me shorty, he means what he say. Because if not he would not have said it. I mean think about it.... Y'all not together anymore? So what is he getting out of telling you that? See what I mean?! So he means what he says. He wishes you the best and is regretful for the immature way he acted. He really does believe your a great girl and all that because if he didn't.. you guys wouldn't have even lasted that year to begin with. trust me