I am friendless in high school :(?

[BTRE3lover]

Since September when I started 9th grade, and I still have no friends. I tried looking for a club, but none of them were interesting to me, I'm very bad at sports so sport teams were a no. I am nice to people, I'm not shy or antisocial. I try to start conversions, but they never last long because we don't have anything to talk about. I go to a far school because my parents didn't want me to go to a school in my area, so I didn't know anyone. My middle school friends and I are drifting apart and there's nothing we can do about it. People never ask me if I want to hang out with them or go to lunch with them. I don't have many classes with the same people, unlike other people that didn't know anyone. All the girls at my school only talk about guys, how they look, or gossip, which I can't stand, but I would listen to it if I had to. The guys would NEVER be friends with a girl, they hardly talk to girls in class. Most of the people hang out with their middle school friends and don't really make other friends. I'm the only person that is alone, I tried looking for other people that don't have any friends or seems alone, but I couldn't find anyone. I spend all my lunches at the library, and most of my free time on Twitter. I do keep up my grades. At my middle school there were tons of people that would hang out with each other, but there doesn't seem to be any people like that at my high school. There are plenty of people that have the same interests as me, but we can't really connect. People mostly only talk to me if it's about school. After months of trying to make friends, I gave up because I know that if after a few months I couldn't make any friends, I might as well stop trying. I'm not depressed about it, but it would be nice to have one friend.

[bunnyfoofoo]

Try joining a club and talking to the kids in your class

[Faith]

ILL BE YOUR FRIEND!

[Carter]

Sounds like you either need a boyfriend or a gay friend or a guy friend that is willing to hang out

[Tara]

Try posting of Facebook or something a 'tbh' and then when someone from your school likes it(most people do just because they like the attention) say something about how they seem really nice and how you would live to get to know then better. Finish it of with a 'message me sometime!' And hopefully SOMEONE will take the bait....then from there it's easy

[Jane]

i'm the same way, trust me that's how everyone feels. at least most people.. they just don't admit it.

if people aren't talking to you, you need to talk to them. make your own friends. say hi to people. you have to learn to do things that don't make you comfortable.
ex: talk to the kids that sit around you in class. talk to all of them and see which one's you click with, and try to be their friends. try to find a common interest. add them on facebook and ACTUALLY TALK TO THEM. chat with them or text!

also you don't have to be good at sports, i'm not good at sports either.
there's so many other things besides sports. you can join all other clubs like art club, drama club, even bible club for crying out loud! you can join anything you want.

and friends will drift apart. one thing i learned is that YOU'RE NOT GOING TO LEAVE HIGH SCHOOL WITH THE SAME PEOPLE YOU ENTERED WITH. but that's just how it is. you have to learn to deal with it, and high school is a place for you to grow and find yourself. try not to spend your 4 years depressed and ready to get out, spend it trying to make memories while you can and living your life. (safely of course lol).

ALSO i just wanted to say -- have you seen the movie Perks of Being A Wallflower? You sound a lot like me and I love that movie because i can relate to it so much, with being shy and introverted and everything. you should definitely watch it! just make sure you have a few tissues laying around xD

i hope i helped! and sorry if i wrote a lot, i'm known for ranting too much haha

[Luis]

High school is tough enough with all the drama. Its hard to make friends now a day because it all based on clothing and 'cool' things everybody has. The only way is to keep talking to people. If you run out of things to talk about, ask the other person to tell them a little about themselves. I'm pretty sure they like something you like as well. Good Luck.