Painful situation, does she like me?

[Jordan]

Ive know this girl for over a year now through college and we flirt alot and text eachother often.. we go cinema with friends often and we ALWAYS sit next to eachother and we hold hands and lean on eachother and sometimes look intoeachothers eyes .our relationship is like a rollercoaster at times.. sometimes she'll start acting distant for no reason and this has led me to act distant to her at times. at this moment in time we have started to get back to normal again, we went cinema again recently and she went to grab my hand but i pulled back. im kind of afraid to open up again because she hurt me last time. .. She is a very self concious girl and isnt that great with guys and i told her i like her through text last year through text and she didnt really give me a solid answer.. I do get the feeling at times she really does like me to, but for some reason she acts strange and pushes me back. A few months ago we were closer than we had ever been but a few days later she completed pushed me back and was avoiding me, I asked her what was wrong and she just denied it all and said nothing was wrong, so i asked a close mutual friend to ask her, and she said that she has "been going through some ****" which she doesnt want to tell anyone about (not even her bestfriend) but it was evident i was the issue as she seemed fine around other people (blatantly targeting me) shes always busy and seems happy around school so it doesnt seem to phase her. Yesterday she was acting cold through her texts so i told her that i do care about her and I will be here for her no matter what, after i told her she has been very quiet. We are back at school now and i expected her to act cold towards me, but she seems cool with me and hopefully she has taken what i've said into consideration.


P.S.. She once said to me while we were teasing and messin about "stop playing hard to get!".. so that made me think aswell. She also said on twitter "i should of treated him the way he used to treat me" which could have been meant for me. Through text she will rarely show any emotion :/ and she hasnt had a boyfriend in the time i've known her

[mariah]

She's scared. She has a lil something for you I think...! You'll have to make the first move though.

[Amzz]

It sounds to me that this girl is very self conscious n nervous n i think she likes u but she is tryin to tell u in a way without making herself feel stupid or look like a fool towards u. She may act distant because she may be getting the feeling that u dont like her in that way. Coz she is self conscious try letting her take the lead-wen she tried to grab ur hand n u pulled back, thats negativity for her so let her do it n jus go with it. She may not have had a boyfriend in the time uve known her because she liked u as soon as she met u n shes 'saving herself' for u maybe. Wen she sed 'stop playing hard to get!' thats a sign that she thinks ur hard to get which may be the whole reason for the distant feeling n evrythin else so maybe loosen up a bit. Also that is a phrase which people use to say they like someone but feel like they cant have them or they dont deserve them or they are too good for them etc.
I think she really likes u as much as u like her but just loosen up n go with it wen she wants to hold ur hand etc. Good luck