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I am friendless in high school :(?
05-27-2013, 09:54 AM
Post: #1
I am friendless in high school :(?
Since September when I started 9th grade, and I still have no friends. I tried looking for a club, but none of them were interesting to me, I'm very bad at sports so sport teams were a no. I am nice to people, I'm not shy or antisocial. I try to start conversions, but they never last long because we don't have anything to talk about. I go to a far school because my parents didn't want me to go to a school in my area, so I didn't know anyone. My middle school friends and I are drifting apart and there's nothing we can do about it. People never ask me if I want to hang out with them or go to lunch with them. I don't have many classes with the same people, unlike other people that didn't know anyone. All the girls at my school only talk about guys, how they look, or gossip, which I can't stand, but I would listen to it if I had to. The guys would NEVER be friends with a girl, they hardly talk to girls in class. Most of the people hang out with their middle school friends and don't really make other friends. I'm the only person that is alone, I tried looking for other people that don't have any friends or seems alone, but I couldn't find anyone. I spend all my lunches at the library, and most of my free time on Twitter. I do keep up my grades. At my middle school there were tons of people that would hang out with each other, but there doesn't seem to be any people like that at my high school. There are plenty of people that have the same interests as me, but we can't really connect. People mostly only talk to me if it's about school. After months of trying to make friends, I gave up because I know that if after a few months I couldn't make any friends, I might as well stop trying. I'm not depressed about it, but it would be nice to have one friend.

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05-27-2013, 10:00 AM
Post: #2
 
im so so sorry to hear that. im going into the 9th grade next year and its weird, this is actually one of those biggest fears. all i can say is look for friends outside of ur school. if i kne ur twitter @ name, id follow u and you could dm me if u wanted

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05-27-2013, 10:07 AM
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This is just a lull, a time period of change for everyone in your age group, you think your alone, but, you are not. Keep trying, I know you say look it has been almost a whole, school year. Your friends from middle school that live near you contact the best ones, hey really if I was your friend, I am still your friend. Real friends in school you might have three or four through high school. Do not worry about it. Just keep doing, smiling and talking and the ones that are friendly will gravitate to you. Look at the positive aspects of this, not one is putting there drama on you, so feel relieved. Things will change give it time.
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