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What is truth to my dream, or is there none?
05-27-2013, 03:28 PM
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What is truth to my dream, or is there none?
I'm sorry if this is the wrong category - but I believe that this is relevant to philosophy?
There is this guy that I like - i've liked him for 4 years. The downside is that he is kind of a celebrity. We met on Twitter and recently, he was coming to my city to perform. I met him and we took pictures. When he was performing, he kept singing to me and made a lot of eye contact from the stage. Long story short, he invited me into his suite and I went but he went into his bedroom and I'm not that kind of girl and don't do one night stands, so I left and he went to his next tour stop and he lives overseas.
I posted the pics of my meeting with him, and everyone has been curious if we are dating or if we have something going on. He never poses like the way he posed with me - its like his eyes were shining and genuinely smiling, and just at a different comfort level like he was as happy as me to finally meet. It seriously looks like a couples picture who are in love. He even recognized me from the second that he saw me from Twitter.
Now there is a second part to all this. Before I met him, I was nervous so before I went to sleep one night, I asked the universe to tell me about what we have together. That night, I dreamt of a beach and that I was running towards a wave, but then I turn around and see these beautiful fishes on the shore. So I turned around and ran towards the shore instead to the fishes, and as I was doing that, a giant soft wave pushes me towards these fishes and I am surrounded by so many more in this wave. I woke up so relaxed and happy, but I don't know why.
I just don't know how to interpret the dream and the situation - could you maybe please help me? Thank you.

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05-27-2013, 03:29 PM
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Don't even go for celebrities like that, sugar. They're all putting off fake personas, and there is nothing genuine to them.

Take it from a woman who knows - they are liars, and cheaters, and they will do anything to manipulate their fans of the opposite sex. Most have Narcissus Disorder/Complex, and they are only looking for low-profile sexual fun, as you have just mentioned, not the real love that a girl like you wants and deserves.

This will only turn out bad for you. I don't want you to be hurt at badly as I was after many years of waiting (count 'em - five,) for a boy like that to get his shit together. (Hate to put it so ineloquently, but that is truly what I wanted him to do. He promised to spend time with me and that he would do things to make everything better, he even wrote songs about me (he'd never admit it to the public, though, as this relationship was WAY on the DL,) and he never followed through.)

Long story short, I broke it off with him (which, most girls wouldn't do or would think was crazy, but I deserved better than the way that I was being treated - I don't care if he's famous or not!) I haven't heard from him since, and he's been pretty bummed about all of this, but it wouldn't be this way if he knew how to treat women for once. He never picked up when I called him, ignored my emails, etc. except when HE had a problem or wanted the attention. It was sooo rude! Boy needs to grow up!

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05-27-2013, 03:33 PM
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Dreams, in general, should not be relied hundred percent, as it does not stand before any scrutiny.
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05-27-2013, 03:38 PM
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Typical groupie dream.
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05-27-2013, 03:40 PM
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Contrary to popular belief (a result of a combination of con-artists wanting to sell books on this subjects and misinterpretations of Freud), dreams cannot be analysed in a linear; ie. x = y, or rather, waves = calm, because a dream is relative to the person having it, and what might be calming for you might be terrifying for another person, such as someone who might have almost drowned, dreaming about a wave.

On another note, your question seems to be more about this guy. (Not to scruple, but your title is extremely misleading and this has more to do with pseudo-psychology rather than philosophy xD)

Anyway, if you really like him, go for it, contact him/flirt/whatever, but don't be surprised if a week later, you see him with another pretty girl and the same look in his eyes. In other words, if things work out, great, but prepare for the worst; ie. your heart being broken.

Coming back to the dream - DREAMS CANNOT PREDICT THE FUTURE - that is a load of bull.

Also, I should also add that considering that he tours a lot... do you have faith in long-distance relationships? That should help you decide on whether or not to go for it.
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