Why don't I wanna approach women?

[Michael]

I did have sex for the first time yesterday, and even after that. I still don't wanna approach women, especially if they are attractive (100% of the time attractive women are taken so approaching them is a waste of time). The woman I had sex with is 3 years older than me, I'm 23. She thought I was married or had a girlfriend because she said I was a good-looking guy (I didn't believe her). Even after losing my virginity, I still don't wanna approach women. Why do it when ALL (yes I said all) women will say no to me? I don't play games and I won't waste my time for any woman. No rude answers please. Save the "it's the man's job to approach women" speech. Some men don't ask women because we don't have to. No offense, but men aren't obligated to do anything for random women.
To Nick: Nope, I'm not doing it. I'm not obligated to do anything for a woman I do not know.
To Monica: Then I'm gonna be alone for a long time, I am not obligated to approach any woman.

[Nick]

Your intimidated by rejection, my advice is to go out and get rejected till you realise it doesn't hurt to hear "no"

I know you don't want to hear this but society has placed the responsibility of starting convos on us guys, luckily over the last 50-60 years women have been encouraged to take that first step, but even if she does it will take two to tango.

[Monica]

Nobody likes to risk being rejected. If women approach you then you don't have to. If they don't and you want to meet them then you need to start. It's as simple as that.

[Manhole]

Women are some of the most evolutionarily evil creatures. For example, women never be the 1st to say something or start a conversation with men they don't know.

Women never tell a joke to men. They never try to make men laugh, or try to be "funny" with guys. It's always guys that try to make women laugh. Women just have horrible personalities.

Women never laugh unless men laugh 1st.

If men never be the 1st to talk to women, then women never be the 1st to talk to men.

Women are never "more social" to men they don't know. When women are surrounded by introvert men, they parrot off, or mirror off, the introvertedness.

Want to know what it's like talking to a woman when you're a man? Do you know what they say? "The minimum" required.

Friendships, relationships, and marriage:

In friendships, relationships, and marriage, women want the upper hand. They want the guy to desire them more than they desire them.

Women only want to be with a man who loves her more than she loves him. Women do not want to love their man and give them affection, they are only interested in being loved. There's a difference between receiving love and giving love. Women want to be loved more than they love back.

Women have to have this in control otherwise they will not be in a relationship with a guy.

So guys, it is important to remember that your girl will never really love you or care that much about you, they are not capable of those feelings. They're extent of loving you extends to you loving them more, and loving them 1st.

Women and attraction:

Women expect men to entertain them and keep them “unbored.” If not, she will lose interest in them. Just like women want to be loved than to love, and are better at receiving love than giving them, they want to be entertained and unbored than to entertain.

Women are about receiving happiness rather than giving happiness. This is why women will not affiliate with a sadder guy. Men will approach a girl that looks depressed, rather than the other way around. (Evolutionarily, happier women have no causation with depressed men.).

As happiness is the key to attracting most women, by this analogy the easiest women to attract are the saddest women, and the hardest to attract are women at the top of the happiness-chain.

Women and Sh-t Tests:

Women like to do sh-t tests to guys, it’s where they turn a guy down, even if they think a guy is cute.

Nightclubs were made due to women. Because nightclubs are a meat market and women want the power. They want to power to turn guys down, and squash them, it’s their world and the guy is just playing in it.

Now, if you come off to a girl as being big and all that, that just increases their chance of wanting to sh-t test and humiliate you.

So they’re not afraid - they’re plotting. They want to be able to shoot you down, your ego, in front of all their girlfriends, and that may be their own ego boost.

In order to not have women do a sh-t test to you, you must have more of a “self-deprecatory” personality.

Some good questions to ask guys:

The real question is, would she have initiated conversation with you if she saw *you* 1st.
The real question is, would she have sat next to you, if *you* got on the bus 1st.