How can I update my relationship status on Facebook privately?

[Painis]

Like so none of my friends see it change on my wall or timeline or in their update?

I set it all to private and only me?

[Stephen]

You set your relationship status privacy settings to YOU ONLY (ONLY ME).

Then you can change the status. Don't change the status without changing the privacy setting first.

[Steve]

go to the privacy on the top of the right and make a private setting of your relationship..
Thank You!