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Kristin Hayden · 08-05-2013, 07:34 AM

For the last few days, and I only know this because I was looking in my history for a link of a recipe that i found a few days ago, my boyfriend, who i've dated for four years, has looked on his ex's (they dated for six months) profile and all of her pictures. The last three days he's done this.. and it's really bothering me. All he has been doing is looking at her profile, and then looking at the pictures. What does this mean? I've been completely hurt about this, feeling as though he wants her back, but I can't confront him or he'll be extremely angry. I've been crying now for the last hour trying to figure this out.. Help!

Rebecca · 08-05-2013, 07:46 AM

Question & Torture him until he spills the beans...

lola · 08-05-2013, 07:53 AM

don't worry about it too much. he's just creeping on her profile to see what she's been up to. there's a reason why he is still with you and not her.

Raoul Duke · 08-05-2013, 07:58 AM

he probably just wants to see if she is miserable or not.

meoshewu · 08-05-2013, 08:08 AM

If he is a angry person maybe you don't need to be with him. It seems as if he is still interested in her. However, he might just be lusting since he has no contact with her. Does he? You should ask him about it in a non-confrontational manner. You need to know where you stand. Don't cry or lose sleep because if he is a cheater he is already doing what you think. Don't let anyone break you down; a man should protect and build you up.

Tell him that your friend need your advice. Then explain the same situation to him and listen to his response. That should help some. Good luck.

Michele C · 08-05-2013, 08:12 AM

He's fishing. You need to move on.

He will hurt you more and more. He does NOT care. ; )

Did it for 20 years, it nearly killed me. Life is too short. You deserve better!

I have Husband 2.0., his eyes LIGHT UP each time he sees me. He constantly says "I LOVE you."
He hugs and kisses me.

He bought Godiva Chocolates and LOVED the X files.

People who love you make you feel GOOD. MS put me in a wheelchair and he takes care of everything. He takes care of the cats, too.