Guy I like 'liked' then 'unliked' my photo on Facebook?

[boltonbird1984]

I asked a guy out by sending a private message on FB. He didn't reply but a few days later he 'liked' a photo of me early in the evening. The 'like' was there for a good 18 hours and then I noticed it disappeared. He is still on my friends list, and other likes on the same photo are still there. I know that one of his friends has fraped him a couple of times late in the evening/early hours, but can't decide whether this like was a frape or not.

I'm not going to send him another pm in case he thinks I'm desperate!

Wth?
The photo he liked was my current profile pic of a head shot of me on a night out. We have 2 mutual friends including his Step Sister

[GoldenGirl]

There are multiple potential reasons for this. As you say, he could have been fraped by a friend. He may have liked it by accident and not noticed it for a while, but that could raise the question of what he was doing looking at your profile, hmm? Equally, he might have liked the photo then feeling awkward or possibly embarrassed, felt that he had to unlike it? Also, he might have regretted not answering your pm and liked your photo, only to back out because he felt he'd ruined his chances? I'm not 100% sure on your situation, so I can't really decide on a reason myself.

If he didn't reply, I would be wary of this guy. If he was decent, he would have replied to you, even supposing it was a polite 'thanks but no thanks' kind of message. I did something similar to you and then discovered that the guy I liked was nothing like what I thought he was. Think about how close you are to him. Do you really know him well? If not, make some kind of attempt to get closer to him, then maybe try again.

I think you're right about not sending him another pm. That would definitely send out desperate signals...

Do you have any friends that are close to him? Maybe you could ask them to approach him about it, even if it would be a little embarrassing on your part. Again, be careful when using this route. In the same scenario I mentioned before, I told my best friend at the time and the story that I had been ignored and rejected was spread round my school before the day was out. But that's worst case scenario, and I was just unlucky. I'm sure it's not the same case for you.