Who do I always start the conversations on Facebook?

[Chris]

I talk to this girl on Facebook, and I feel I am the only one who starts the conversations, infact, I am the only one who starts the conversations. I am not trying to get a date with her, she is taken, I am only wanting a friendship. I even asked her if she enjoyed talking and she said yes, she does go along with the conversation and does not give short replies to try and make it difficult for you, she might even ask some questions to keep it going. But she never really starts the conversations so I am not too sure if she is just being nice by talking to me, I stopped talking to her for month to see if she would pop up, but she never.

[St.3240]

Yeah I know what you mean.

But the logic is, if someone doesn't start a conversation with you its simply because they have no reason to, if someone did decide to talk to you its because they wanted to or they needed you to assist them for company for whatever reason. The truth is, if you want to be the person who people talk to first, you need to talk to them first to show them that you're friendly and willing to be social. Trust me if you show people your kindness and interest, they will come to you eventually.

Good luck.