Why do girls always call me a creep and block me when I try to randomly chat with them on facebook?

[Squiggley]

I always seem like the better person in the chats too just by the way they respond like (I'm trying to tell you off) by taking what I said and turning into her little own fucked up analysis and making it seem like I'm the creep when she's really just making herself seem like an arrogant bitch..

You know maybe I should act like a creep... a real creep! since everybody expects that from me anyway.

[A-Dub]

Watch what you say when you start up a conversation. There's a big difference between something like "Hey, what's up?" and "Ayyyyy girl "

[AdamLambertGurl]

Well, being a girl, I can say it IS a little creepy when a random guy starts talking to me on facebook. Facebook is a great social media but the thing you have to realize is that it isn't a forum where you can private chat to anyone and it be ok. If you want to just chat to random people (then get their FB info to chat more) I suggest going to a cyber pen pal site or using a website like IMVU or secondlife maybe to meet new people.

[Branden]

The world isn't what it used to be anymore, you cant just walk up to a girl and tell her you like her dress or say she has a beautiful smile without getting a sexual harassment charge. Its retarded. But nowadays you have to be careful and conversation have evolved over the decade.

In order to be approved by a females standards you have to be socially accepted through what they call social proofing, or in other words, rather than target a a female for discussion, target someone you know that knows her or target her male friend and work your way through the door, this allows for acceptance in her eyes as her friends approve of your and see you not as a creep but someone she can build and gain trust, thus being social proof.

This is how it should be now-a-days because you are willing to open yourself to new partnerships with other people by creating several connections rather than just one connection (this is what makes you the creep; generally speaking for all men). Improve your social life and your skills and eventually you will become a pro at it. The best part about this, she won't be your only friend, you will have several more female friends of that nature..