Do you have problems with friends being nice to your enemies?

[Foxtail]

Do you have problems with friends socializing or being friendly to your enemies? I have this one friend who is very bad about this she will talk to people she knows and is very social paying little attention to whether this person has been hateful to me. I find this behavior particularly offensive. Sometimes she will even look for them at a store they work at just to talk to them. Also I have coworkers who friend people on social media who aren't very nice to me. Have you deal with friends socializing and interacting with your enemies? How did you feel about it and deal with this?

[Klaire]

Yes. My friends are nice to a girl that has been mean to all of us and has not treated us right. They say they will not give her another chance, But they do. I'm the only one who was smart enough to cut off all ties. They just keep getting hurt over and over again and come complaining to me. But it's their decision to be friends with her not mine. You are not in the position to tell them who they can socialize and be friends with. You may hate or dislike whoever you want, But you can not expect your friends to do the same. It is not fair to your friends. Let them do their own thing. You can feel however you want, But don't be angry if they feel different.

[lady luck]

Personally I think that it depends why you don't like that person. I was friends with a girl once and she forced me into a really bad situation. She had tricked me into getting into a car with someone that I did not know. Out of no where I was pushed into a car, by my ''friend'' and a guy. The driver drove us to a location that I did not know where we were. She told me that this was her friends house and we walked in. She wanted to have relations with one of the guys. I however did not. The guy threw me on the bed and raped me. Later she told me that she did not know that the night was going to end up like that. However it was too late. I lost my virginity by force. I felt that all of my friends should not be friends with her. They were. I just had to deal with it. It hurt but, the truth of the matter is that I cannot tell others who they can and cannot be friends with.