whats the exact option i have to press to be able to?

[Abl]

hide from my friends not to be notified on Facebook if I accept or invite another friend, I would like them to be notified but when I press on privacy settings there a lot of options, I want to know which is the one exactly in this case
I mean i wouldn't like them to be notified

[Ronnie]

From Timeline click on the Friends tab, click edit on the top of the page, click the audience selector button and select only me . Then only you can see your friendlist.