This Forum has been archived there is no more new posts or threads ... use this link to report any abusive content
==> Report abusive content in this page <==
Post Reply 
 
Thread Rating:
  • 0 Votes - 0 Average
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
Naked pictures of me on Facebook... Guys hitting on me... SUICIDE?
08-24-2013, 05:49 PM
Post: #1
Naked pictures of me on Facebook... Guys hitting on me... SUICIDE?
I'm at this place i my life where I'm far from stable/content. I fell in love with this guy and well I trusted him, we went out for over half a year and so I showed him myself naked on Skype because I was too shy to do it through a picture. He saw me and apparently screenshot it, we were having problems and well eventually I was pissed off and broke up with him without thinking. We both had our mouthfuls in trying to hurt each other and well it wasn't a good break-up to say the least.During our last week dating we had tried smoking Marijuana- promising to never try it again. I wasn't a big fan of it so it was a problem but he recorded me smoking because I wanted to see what I looked like. He screenshot pictures and sent them to my mom, he also sent her my naked pictures, he even made up bullshit and well there's a ruined relationship.

In addition, he went on MY Facebook (I gave him my password because I trusted him) and he posted a naked screenshot of me from Skype. He went on his Facebook later, claiming that I "cheated" on him. Well long story short my family and I went to the cops and filled a report on him, we're not a allowed to talk but he's been begging me for forgiveness and love doesn't die quickly...

Even after all of this, this isn't my main problem. During this time I've been getting over 15 guys hitting on me. I deactivated my Facebook and made a new one, blocking him (Jordy, my ex) on it. Guys have been messaging me (not random guys, guys that go to my school) and it's really messing with me.. Everyone thinks I'm a slut for a lack of a better word.

Look, I just don't know what to do. People saved my naked picture.. it won't die quickly. I don't want to go outside, I had to fly to my dad's because I was depressed and I have medical depression already. I've been hospitalized 3 times. I'm trying not to fall back on my old ways but is this some sick joke?

How can I stop these guys from hitting on me? What can I do about the naked picture? Should I switch schools, I'd lose so many friends and I'd probably fall even farther in my depression hole.

I'm only sixteen...

http://prntscr.com/1cso8o
http://prntscr.com/1csojr
http://prntscr.com/1csp6r

the sad part is I still miss him...
Why would I show my nudes if I want them gone? those are conversations with guys that hit on me
Also note- I've been living here since I was a baby. These are my lifetime friends- Where will I start as a junior and fit in like I did here?

Ads

Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
08-24-2013, 05:58 PM
Post: #2
 
Similar story happened in British Colombia, Canada not too long ago. This is really hard. You have to move far away. I suggest to another continent. Start a new life. Don't use facebook. Forget about him. You don't miss him. Get that sack of crap out of your life. He doesn't deserve you. How could he do something like that? Don't suicide. Move away to a far place and start a whole new life. Don't contact any of your old friends.

All the best to you.

Ads

Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
08-24-2013, 06:09 PM
Post: #3
 
Those links at the end look like they say print screen. Are those your nudes? I'm not even gonna try opening them up. But if this is a serious question, don't consider suicide. Think of your Parents, your brothers, all those who truly love you. Just be strong and get through it. Change schools and do whatever you need to feel better. Remember time heals all wounds, and suicide is NEVER the answer.

Good Luck!
Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
08-24-2013, 06:25 PM
Post: #4
 
Well once the pic is out its out sorry about that you will have to deal with that. As for all the guys hitting on you tell them you made a mistake the guy that spread your pic on the internet is a scumbag and you could sue Him if you wish. but you will just have to live with it its realy not that big of deal as there are millions of others who have went through the same thing and you could claim that some one "Photoshopped" it. good luck with that and time will let it fade out.
Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
08-24-2013, 06:39 PM
Post: #5
 
do not kill yourself try therapy(it sounds worse then it is) try online school and talk to your family and do not go back to him!he is the worse ****ing person ever.Really talk to your friend and family you'll get past this part of your life.also is dag thug the preson in the photos?
Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
08-24-2013, 06:47 PM
Post: #6
 
NEVER put anything on the internet that you don't want sent to your grandmother. A little late now, but you can see why. Suicide is no answer, just tell every girl you see him talking to why he's jerk.
The jerks that are rude you can ignore, but SOME nice guy may ask you without seeing it, accept it like he hasn't , it is AN event in a life full of events.
WHY did you show your name and face in the texts, but not the jerks, Let THEM fade the heat.
Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
08-24-2013, 07:00 PM
Post: #7
 
We all go through experiences in life that make us who we are. Sadly some are not the best Sad But you have to rise above and look beyond! live and learn from the past and be positive for a better future. Life goes on, one day you will look back on this and laugh thinking how immature it all was, and how naive you were. For now focus your attention on other things and leave Facebook alone. Any guy who tries to communicate to you over this isn't worth it. Especially your ex-boyfriend! Spend more time with family and 'true' friends to get your mind over it. Don't be silly enough to let anything like this to happen again.
Find all posts by this user
Quote this message in a reply
Post Reply 


Forum Jump:


User(s) browsing this thread: 1 Guest(s)