My friend is mad at me about something that she should have never been involved in, help?

[Olive]

So, for the sake of keeping her anonymous, I'll use a fake name for her, which is "Panda".
So, Panda is mad at me over something that is strictly supposed to be my family's business. My cousin (whom Panda has only met once and has only texted her since then but claims she "knows all about her") got herself into trouble and has to be taken to counseling. Panda doesn't agree with what we are doing for my cousin because we don't understand her. My cousin is a compulsive liar, so don't you think it would be easy for her to lie to Panda, especially over text? She says we don't understand my cousin, but Panda has only met her once! Besides, I have gone through this same thing with my brother, so I know more about what's going on with my cousin than Panda does.
The fact is, this is none of Panda's business and she started this fight by texting me, fussing me out about it. Even if I did agree with Panda, there's nothing I could do to change what my aunt is doing. Panda is now posting mean things about me on Twitter, and she knows that I know she's talking about me.
She has been fighting with me more and more lately, even before this, and my mom says it's because she's jealous or insecure. She used to be my only friend and used to help me with my anxiety issues, but now that I have more friends and am not having mental breakdowns, she feels threatened. I never tried to replace her with these friends, so I don't know what's going on there.
The only reason I have been emotionally withdrawing from her is because of how she keeps fighting with me over the stupidest things.

Extremely long story short, this coming week is the last week of school. I have to see Panda quite often during the day, and I know she is going to act hateful to me. She'll most likely ignore me and avoid me, but still sit close by to make sure I see how mad she is. How do I deal with her when these next 4 days are supposed to be the happiest of the year? We have the same circle of friends and they are all going to wonder what's going on and I'm going to have to explain it.
When she first started the fight, I told her it was none of her business and stopped responding. I haven't said anything to her since. The only thing is when school comes again, I have to deal with her in person.

[carmelcream]

Get rid of panda she's not a true friend...

[Shriekingspot710]

Sounds like panda does enough talking for the both of you. Let her dig herself her own grave! Give someone enough rope and theyll hang themself! You dont owe anyone any explanations about whats going on in your personal life. Panda has no right to be in your business. Dont show panda you are angry, stop following her on twitter. Dont giver her any reaction bc that will drive her insane. Shell eventually get sick of it and apologize or talk to you and if she hasnt changed her tune, drop her like a bad habit!

[Alicia]

Panda sounds like she just loves drama. She loved being the only friend of someone who had anxiety problems and had no friends. She loves texting with your cousin who has issues that lead them into counseling. Now that you have more friends and a better hold on your mental health, she is trying to create drama once again by fighting with you.

As someone who has had these types of friends in the past, you need to drop her. They are not worth the time or effort you put into them. If she got into a fight with you about something that's not her business and now she's spreading stuff on Twitter the girl loves DRAMA.

I'm not sure if this is your last year of high school or just the last week of this grade but you just need to relax and ignore her, if she wants to play games with you. You just need to ignore it. It's not worth it, she's not worth it.

I know you want to be her friend but I think your mom is right, she is jealous and insecure and while I know you want to tell her that she shouldn't be and that you still like her and want to be her friend. It won't work. She'll just ignore you and continue to act like a dummy because dramatic people feed off that stuff.

I say just ignore her and enjoy your last week with your other friends. And your friends will definitely ask what's wrong, just tell them a short version of it and just be done with it.