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Katie · 09-01-2013, 05:32 PM

I literally poured my heart out to a guy of facebook saying that I have feelings for him and does he feel the same way blah blah blah. It says on facebook he's "seen" the message..but he hasn't replied. It's been over a week now? What does this mean? It took him a while to actually read the message in the first place.

Violet · 09-01-2013, 05:44 PM

okay. listen, sweety. Guys don't like when you do things like that. it makes the girl seem desperate and pushy, and it's a huge turn off for them. i'm a girl, yes. but, my guy friends have said many times that it's a huge turn off when girls try to have deep conversations like that. usually, a guy likes when a girl just says "Hey Smile

" so they can do all the sweet talking. so, that was a bad move, and no offense, but you definetly scared him away.

Greta · 09-01-2013, 05:58 PM

It could mean that he's just not a frequent Facebook user so that's why he didn't see the message right away. But since he didn't replay when you know he's 'seen' it, it may mean that he's not interested in that right now, so he may not know how to reply to it. It also depends how close you two are. Idk if that helped, and I wish you the best of luck with him Smile

I know how that feels if he doesn't like you backâ€¦

Nick · 09-01-2013, 06:11 PM

It could be one of three things (that I can think), 1) he could either like you but doesn't know what to say right now or isn't ready or has issues.. 2) he could be a player 3) he might not like you in the same way you like him.

I've had crushes on women that didn't seem to like me back in the same way, I've been played and I've had women come onto me that I regarded as friends. Although I'm a guy, I'm an expert in getting nowhere in these things.

It also depends on other circumstances, have you met him? how often?, were the signals strong from both of you when you were together?, if you haven't met him does he know what you look like? (even a photo isn't enough to go on, if you haven't met there's no opportunity to get your whole personality and style across). Just some thoughts, all the best to you.