Am i changing or is there something going on?

[Rebecca]

I used to be fun and loving and stuff but lately i just cant be bothered to do anything. I do loads all the time though but like with my friends and stuff.
One example is my mums getting married next year and im chief bridesmaid but every time she mentions the wedding i just cannot be bothered to talk about it or do anything...that may be because i dont really like the family shes marrying or because i cant be bothered to try and like the family shes marrying.
My friend has been there with me through everything but lately shes become spoilt and has changed and i just cant be bothered to try and get passed it. I dont know why though because i dont want to push everyone away i just dont seem to have anything to motivate me.
My boyfriend comes round quite alot, everyday infact and im getting to the stage where im just kinda not really looking forward to doing things anymore because i just dont have the enthusiasm...

Any ideas why or am i just changing????

Please put what you think because even critisism could help.!.! Thanks.

[Alex]

First of all, thanks for answering my question, it really helps

Well i am a 15 year old boy and I get this quite alot. It only kicked it about half a year ago on and off. Its nothing major, just growing up. So yes, you are just changing.
A good tip I use is too get out more often. Go to the cinema with friends (or your boyfriend), walk your dog if you have one, just anything to get you up and moving.

[Emily Ever]

Recently I thought the same thing about myself. I didn't feel motivated and I lost a lot of self confidence that caused me to fast off food for a couple days. (I'm totally over that thought, it was a stupid idea.)

All that it really took to get me back on my feet was a couple good days with my friends that reminded me why life is worth living

Go out, go to a concert, go shopping, go rock climbing, go surfing, EAT FRIED OCTOPUS (Just kidding). Do something adventurous that makes you exhilarated. It can give you a whole new outlook.