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Should I delete my mom off facebook?
09-08-2013, 02:56 AM
Post: #1
Should I delete my mom off facebook?
I am so frustrated. My parents are going through a divorce right now and my mom is always so controlling. First off my dad adored my mom and tried to give and do anything to make her happy. That meant paying a gardener, a nanny, and a house cleaner for her while she just went out with her friends all the time and never did anything nice or thoughtful for him back. Then my dad got a good paying job and it was going real well for a year and a half then when the economy crashed he lost a lot of money. That made my mom really unhappy and she chose to drink and became drunk at night. It was so horrible and it made me so ticked. She never got help and she always hit my dad and hurt herself by breaking glass when she was drunk. Anyway that was a year ago and she stopped getting drunk but she still is very angry and thinks nothing is her fault. Me and her have always fought and she tried to hit me once but my dad stepped in. Then when he moved out, things got awkward between me and my mom. She could never support me or be there when I needed her to be my mom. So we kept fighting and she always yelled at me. She would never go out and do anything fun. She always stayed home and wanted me to do chores all the time. If there was one tiny speck on the floor she freaked out and I had to clean everything again. Then I had enough of living with her because it was not healthy enviornment for me so I moved out with my dad. Now after a month of living with my dad, she has been guilting me all the time, lieing to me, engaging in crappy conversations about me to her friends, getting people involved that she knows from a different state then us that don't need to be in it and have nothing to do with it, she friended my classmates on facebook and likes everything they post, she wants to like everything on my facebook and comment on every post and think that everything I saw is about her and ITS NOT!!!! I post inspiring quotes that I like that are about being true to yourself or finding important things in life. I am in highschool and its been like hell for me because I was born different and people don't include me because of it so I don't have very many friends. Those friends are in different classes then me so I don't get to see them much. I put quotes on facebook to help me feel better and sometimes I vent because my mom always argues with me when ever I try to tell her how I feel at home. Facebook is where I feel support and care. Then she will get on my butt and her one friend will b**ch to her about me and what I put on there. My mom's relatives who live in a different country started commenting on my posts and rephrasing what I say but they put my mom's name and say they are supporting her on MY facebook status'. I am so tired of it. This is all so rediculous. I deserve to be happy and not be sucked in to what she wants to happen. If she really loved me she wouldn't try to force it down my throat, manipulate me, or control everything I do and try to prove to my classmates that I am the bad person. Love is gentle, love is kind and patient....

ANYWAY I am just so frustrated. any advice?

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09-08-2013, 03:00 AM
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I would either block her and her friends or make another facebook profile and have privacy settings so that only friends can view your posts.

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09-08-2013, 03:11 AM
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Rule #10000 never add your parents on any social network trust me they make your life difficult
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