We quit Facebook and now he wants it back...?

[kate]

So my boyfriend and I mutually decided to "quit" Facebook for many reasons. Mainly because I was feeling emotionally and physically neglected and when we talked about it (the shit hit the fan that day, it was bad and we fought over it). His words were along the lines of: "I'm sick of the Internet and Facebook anyways. I want to get rid of it. It causes nothing but causes problems. And I want to take time to focus on the things that matter... Like us."

It's been two weeks and now he's talking about how he misses talkin to the people he otherwise couldn't. I hate this thought, cause things have been so great. So amazing. I am so happy. But I know if he goes back to his Facebook addiction, I'll be put on the back burner again.

We never swore that we'd not go back... And I didn't give an ultimatum or anything, so technically I'm not stopping or preventing him from doing it, but still.

Any HELPFUL advice would be appreciated please. Not rude or stupid comments please.

[Veronica]

As you have mutually decided to quite Facebook similarly on this issue you and him need to take mutual decision to solve this problem dear.

[Daniel]

If He Wants To Go Back on Facebook Let Him Go Back on Facebook

[Louise]

Let him open his Facebook.

[Janice]

I often spend too much time on the computer. I am disabled, and right now I can't work. I can spend 12hrs. on the internet. There are times that I don't go to bed at a decent hour. I have gone days without cleaning. I don't socialize very much. I keep putting off things that I need to do at another time. Am I "addicted" to the computer? Maybe. Is it becoming a problem? Yes. Ask your boyfriend to go without it for 24 hrs. If he can't, he has a problem. Is is starting to have relationship problems due to it. Is he taking care of responsibilities in life? Does he call into work/school saying that he is sick, but the real reason that he wants to take the day off is so he can be on the computer. Does he think about being on the computer a lot, having withdrawal like symptoms when he is not on it.. For example, is he ever in a rush to get off of work/school in order to get on the internet? If he has these problems, is he an "addict?' Maybe. Is it a problem? Yes. I hope that you can work this out. Good luck?

[C J]

The best thing you can do is,dump your boyfriend and find someone who cares about you and not facebook.