My boyfriend broke up with me because i lied to him about deactivating my facebook. I dont know what to do?

[tennislove]

Honestly i dont even know where to start I know that no one will understsnd the complexity of my relationship but im so lost and humiliated and I dont know what to do i need imput from someone.. I need help.. my boyfriend broke up with me for good... said he is done with me he told me "f***" you and everything. He deactivated his face book a few months ago. I told him a few days ago that I would deactivate my Facebook because I didn't want it to cause any problems in our relationship. He said okay babe. He has huge trust issues with me I've never cheated on him and I never would but he has caught me in a few little lies in the past so he doesn't trust me... and I did deactive it for a short short time, maybe a day and i turned it back on cause I get bored and I like to skroll through my homepage.Well we fought a little bit earlier today and he turned on his Facebook when I wasn't on it and he said wtf you told me you deactivated it this is the last straw we're done for good.. now he doesn't believe ANYTHING I say..I feel beyond terrible and humiliated, I can't believe I have ruined the best thing in my life. I told him that I'm sorry and that I really was going to deactivate it and that I just get bored and like to check my Facebook, I'm not cheating on him or being sneaky (my profile picture is of me and him) it says I'm in a relationship everything.. and thats the truth. but I understand why is he so angry at me because he thinks I was lying, I didn't deactivate it like I told him.I just don't know what to say to him.. or if I should say anything at all. It may sound stupid cause it involves Facebook but I knew that he already had trust issues with me, I should not have liked to him. I feel incredibly stupid and like no one can understand if I try to talk to them. I guess my question is.. what should I do. We've been dating for almost a Year and I love him with my whole heart.. I want my future with him. Help please

[abraXus]

i guess it's time to learn a lesson

stop lying

then get a new boyfriend

[Sum Ting Wong]

your main problem is you dont realize that a guy who doesnt trust you is a bad boy friend if you have no trust you have nothing and so while were on the subjest who does he think he is telling you to close your fb next thing you know he will tell you what to wear and who your friends are no im telling you you didnt close it because you didnt want to but you just didnt have the back bone to tell him no who the fuck do you think you are he did you a favor by leaving you sound young youll have a new boy friend in no time

[nora]

You should have seen that coming. You should NEVER lie to your partner. Sadly, there is nothing you CAN do any more. You lied to him, knowing it would hurt him, and he decided to move on. Learn not to lie, then find yourself a new boyfriend.

Ultimately, it doesn't MATTER what your profile said, you still lied to him.

Also, from the wording, it sounds like he approached you about being uncomfortable with you having a facebook, you swore you'd deactivate it, and then you decided not to.

[Michelle]

This is a blessing, really. He is paranoid and doesn't trust you at all. He is so controlling that he is making you feel humiliated and like a bad person because you didn't follow his orders. He has no right to control you like that. He didn't dump you because he's upset over the facebook thing. That is a small thing that most people wouldn't break up over. He dumped you because he knew that by dumping you, he would make you feel so sad and guilty for not doing what he told you to do. I'm sure he's expecting you to delete your facebook like he told you to, and then go back to him, begging him to take you back telling him "I'm so sorry for not doing what you asked, I deleted my page like you wanted me to". He simply wants control over you. Your relationship wasn't healthy and it's good that you're out of it.

I don't know how old you are, you seem young, but you will meet other guys. You would not want to spend your life with someone like him. You'll move on from this and once you get over the sadness of being dumped, I think you'll realize that being away from him is for the best.

[Jigyasa]

As someone else said you need to learn a lesson. Stop lying and try your best to gain his trust. He did no wrong.

[Richard]

This guy sounds like a douchebag...

Why should you get ride of your facebook, because he is insecure... If you are being faithful, and simply using your facebook as keeping in touch with your friends, then who the f@&k does he think he is to kick off at something so stupid. He is an ass.

Friends come first, you loose your friends then what do you have?

If he can't trust you or you can't trust him then its never going to work.

I wouldn't even show him your account. You lied to him yes...but that is not wrong. You lied to him because he wanted you to change yourself to make him feel happy about himself... This is a form of control next he will be making you feel bad about being friends with certain people about dressing a certain way and so on.

Ditch him, and stay strong..

Don't change yourself for anyone. If they can't trust you, or accept you as the way you are, then f@&k them.

Sorry for being so blunt