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How do I message a girl I like on facebook without sounding like a creep?
11-18-2013, 04:05 AM
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How do I message a girl I like on facebook without sounding like a creep?
I asked a question about this girl I like and advice on how to ask her out, probably a good idea if you read that first, and I was told to talk to her on Facebook but I don't want to message her on Facebook out of the blue and sound like a stalker, I thought of asking her if we had any homework and then trying to change the subject so I could use that as an opener to our conversation? What do you guys think? If you have any more suggestions, that would be helpful

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11-18-2013, 04:09 AM
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Here is what i would type" hello, i am not trying to be a creep, but i think you are pretty cool" i think it would work! Or just ask how her day is then change the subject

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11-18-2013, 04:25 AM
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Honestly you can just message the girl on fb, asking as your friends on fb lolol. Guy have it easier than girl you can send a simple hey and it can seem completely normal, if she doesn&#x27;t answer, you know he has no interest in you.
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11-18-2013, 04:39 AM
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Don't start with hey or hi that's what all boys do and it doesn't look good. Start with something the girl will find interestting and not be bored like for example " remember that cat that came into our school". Then move on to other topics that are funny . She may use 'Xxx' don't think she is using it because she likes you. She prob does it to every person. Probally use some smiley faces in one or two messages . And keep her interested and if you see her in school don't be afraid to talk to her. You'll be praised by boys even if there chanting there showing repect for you. If your talking to all the girls and there just doing the work and being dorky . Your the one that getting the girls. And please don't make excuses like ' No she's with a group of friedns or she's with a boy. Just don't be afriad. Hope this helped
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11-18-2013, 04:43 AM
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If you have classes together - or some classes together - stick with this subject until you get some information you can "use" about what her likes and dislikes might be. You can ask about homework, about how she likes school this year and/or about how she likes a certain teacher, etc. Those conversations are best that flow naturally. If you ask her about homework and then "Would you like to go out?", there's a disconnect and a tendency to pull away from the conversation. If she happens to mention something she likes or doesn't like that you also like or don't like explore it more. Be friendly and interested. Once both you and she are involved in a conversation, it's easy to ask her out "to continue the conversation". Otherwise, you risk coming on too strong and you both risk getting caught in a date that's awkward for both of you. There's nothing like a date where two people find out they have nothing in common and no one talks much:-)
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11-18-2013, 04:46 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/user/SimplePickup

Thats most likely all you'll ever need
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11-18-2013, 04:53 AM
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just list a few of your interests and hobbies, if she gets back to you great, if not, move on
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