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My ex unblocked me, deleted her account, then made a new one and reblocked me, why?
11-18-2013, 11:23 PM
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My ex unblocked me, deleted her account, then made a new one and reblocked me, why?
This may be a bit weird but hear me out. My very odd, obsessive, immature, attention seeking ex recently unblocked me from Facebook 2 days ago on her real name account. She has 3 other role play accounts that I know of and I am blocked on all of them, including blocked on her twitter and skype. She blocked me because apparently and supposedly I said mean things about her. That makes not a bit of sense because the guy she is "with" now (internet relationship, long distance) said potentially worse things about her than I did. I vented to him a few nights as a friend, about my frustrations of how I felt she used me and dumped me for no reason and was just stringing me along, giving me false hope. Yeah I loved this girl dearly, but I also realized she was far too immature for me. Age not mattered, though 18, in the mind she may be about 10 from watching too many animes and isolating herself in her room too much.

Anyways, she blocked me from everything for that reason I mentioned and went with this guy who said bad things about her too. I screen capped what was said and had it sent to her. She supposedly got upset but did nothing about it. Then later she denied ever seeing it. She said bad things about me on her wall to friends and such and making this big silly scene about me, having her equally immature friends talking crap on me and its a shame most of them are in their 20s and even 30s. They hear whatever I said about her and believe it and I think really its stupid, this shouldnt involve them, it was between me and her but oh well. The breakup her and I had was over drama. It was over her perverted exes and perverted fans saying inappropriate things on her page. I asked her to either tell them to stop with it or block them. She did neither and accepted it, went along with it, like it was just the way it was and I got so sick of it and gave her the final choice, them or me and well she chose them.

After the breakup and being lead on for over a month by her, I felt sick of her games and being lead on and vented to that friend like I said. He ran back to her and told her and she blocked me and hated me since (though he talked crap on her too and she ended up "dating" him) and later I hear she is stalking my page somehow. She brings my name up here and there on my wall and I am quite puzzled, if she hates me, why mention me? 2 months have passed since the blocking, since her little childish war against me and 2 days ago I discover her name in the Facebook news feed. I didn't bother with her, didn't poke her, message her, anything. I sat there, watching to see if she would do anything. This morning, 2 days later, the profile disappears. I figured she reblocked me. But no, a friend told me she deleted that account, made a new one and then must have blocked me on this one. And to make things even more strange, she put on her wall of one of her role play accounts (the one with her 5000 friends on it, her main account) "People need to **** off, I would never take (me) back!" and I was really stumped at this. I never spoke a word to her. And she reblocks me on this new account and says on her wall she would NEVER go back with me? What brought this on? I am really trying to rid my mind of this girl, I loved her deeply and madly and its hard for me really to forget about her but she somehow finds a way to remind me of her existence. I am aware she is not happy with this guy she is with. He is nothing like me, a poor rebound. Nowhere comparable in looks, personality, anything. She put on her wall a few weeks after getting with him "I just want to be loved :-;" which is silly. She was loved, by me. And she removed him from her relationship status twice now that I am aware of. She doesn't even acknowledge him from what a friend told me and she seems moody and downright unhappy. SO, with all being said, why is she doing what she is doing to me? Serious answers, please. I know its silly and an immature situation but I am curious why she is doing what she is doing, unblocking me, reblocking me, saying she would never go back with me yet she complains about being unloved. What is going on inside her head and what is her major deal?
Just to add, we had a very fun relationship while it lasted. She was silly, immature, laughed about gross things and such and I was on her wave length. Not many guys would tolerate her silliness but I had a nice time having discussions with her. I know she was emotionally damaged at a younger age, was raped, molested, bullied, etc. She has a lot of issues to work out and has major trust issues and problems opening up to people. I guess these things should be factored in. She was seldom affectionate and preferred just acting silly, which was okay for awhile but sometimes I just wanted affection and she rather be silly, so it got annoying at times.

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11-18-2013, 11:34 PM
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Don't worry about Facebook relationships and statuses. Focus on real life and real people.

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