Why isn’t this girl on my Facebook interested in going to a football game with me?

[Sean Dalt]

I would like to know why this girl is avoiding me. First of all, I know she is a football fan and I am too. We had met up a few times and she seemed to have fun being around me. However, when I asked her if she wanted to go to the football game with me that is coming up on Sunday, she didn’t give me a straight answer and she didn’t seemed enthusiastic. She just said: “we will see. I have to let you know.” So weeks go by, I have tickets to a football game and I asked her again if she thought about going because I had a ticket. Again, she said the same thing like: “I still don’t know yet but will let you know.” So I told her that I will just find someone else to go with because I don’t want the tickets to go to waste.

Now today, I saw she put on her Facebook: “GOING TO THE FOOTBALL GAME ON SUNDAY! I CANNOT WAIT!” So I commented back and said something like: “You know what? All this time I asked you go to the game with me, you didn’t even bother to show interest so why go all of a sudden?” Then I sent her a private text saying: “I am really disappointed that you are blowing me off and not giving me an honest answer. For you to go to the game with your friends when I asked you first is very immature on your part!”

Was she being rude? Why is she blowing me off and not even showing interest in going with me? Should I still keep her as a friend on Facebook? She treats me differently like I have special needs but on her Facebook, she seems so excited about football but won’t bother to talk to me at all about it and will just ignore me when I invite her out! It hurts my feelings too. Also she claims she is always busy and making excuses but she is lying! I know she isn’t busy and just saying an excuse to come up with a reason to not talk to me. Why is that?

[Joshua]

think you're just a creep mate.

[DiMaZ D]

she only play with you, maybe you are handsome or you had something that make she interested on you. i think is the best for you to forget her, she never serious with you. the girl is different with us, they think what they do is right but never

[JanetM]

I am NOT going to read all that... but if someone isn't interested, they aren't interested. Don't keep pursuing someone if it's not producing results... move on! In other words... take the hint. Doing so only pushes people away. There doesn't need to be a reason. Are you interested in every girl who talks to you or looks at you? If she were interested in going to a footgame game with you... she would say so. She's not interested.

[Jae]

Sometimes you just gotta let the ladies breathe. If I were you, I'll ask another girl to go with me. If she shows no interest in going with you, then drop it. Act as if you don't really mind. She has her reasons. She doesn't want to say it, then okay. Don't push it. You're not dating her or anything, so you don't have the right.

But yes, she is quite rude on her part, but you're also being pushy. It happens.

Funny how women call us complicated.