Do you think this is fair of my boyfriend to test me like this?

[guce_415]

Ok, here goes, ive been in a relationship with my current bf for about 10 months now.. i love him so much its incredible. He has made me feel more complete than any man ever has and there are so many great qualities about him.. there are also a few small negative ones as well.. he cant leave my past in the past, and he has a problem with me having a facebook, twitter, and myspace, all of which i had before i met him, i told him i have no problem showing him everything on there but sumhow this issue keeps arising.. there is no reason for him to not trust me or doubt me.. Ok now to the next issue.. I like to read entertainment gossip online (mediatakeout.com bossip.com) all harmless websites, however he doesnt like these sites.. he tries to make me feel like i am a groupie for following and reading up on these things, when i just look to see new fashion trends, new info on musicians, just basic entertainment info. I dont try to reach out on websites and contact celebs or anything like that.. well the other day i was lookin at mediatakout while me and my bf were watchin a basketball game.. well he knew i was on the site, and the first thing that comes up is an article about kanye west nude pics being leaked out.. well that wasnt even an article i particularly cared about or wanted 2 see (i mostly like looking at articles about female celebs) so he asked what the article was about.. and i told him oh i guess some nude pics got out of kanye.. well he tells me to click the link and look @ the pics.. i said i dont care about that article.. which i didnt.. so he says again to just look.. so i clicked the link.. 2 days later he flips out saying why i was looking at d*ck on his laptop and all kinds of crazy ****, saying he was testing me to see if i would really click it and look.. i was like are you serious??? then he was sayin just because i tell you to do it, your gunna do it??? would u jump of a bridge if i told u??? would u have sex with someone else if i told you to do it??? i feel like his way of checkin to see if im a trustworthy person was just crazy, and messed up!!! I really love and care for him, and I dont care about looking at pics of other guys online and things like that.. i am 110% satisfied with how my boyfriend looks and dont feel i need anything/anyone else.... can you offer your opionion on the situation?? am i in the wrong looking at these sites?? does he have a legit reason not wanting me on there??? would it cause harm to a relationship??
One thing--my boyfriend has made sacrafies for me and our relationship.. he plays pro basketball, and adjusted his schedule to mine completly, he moved with me away from his hometown and basically all of his time is dedicated to me and basketball.. so he feels like i am not giving him 100% of me by visiting these websites.

[Jade]

to be honest, he sounds like a complete dick.
controlling you like that and going off at you for something stupid which he basically forced you to do,
i've been through it myself babe.
break if off now before it gets worse, and it will
he is clearly insecure and a control freak, like alot of men are.

[Sarah]

maybe an ex gf was being shady online so hes worried but thats no way for him to treat you,its not fair, explain to him that you love him but you are a person and have the right to do what you want and dont have time for his silly tests.

[BloopityBloopity]

Is he like, 15?? LOL This crap about testing you with the pics, is ridiculous...it's a sign of immaturity and jealousy. Love does not test. He has no right to demand you refrain from certain things if those things are not immoral in some way. You didn't even want to look at the pics, he practically forced you to...and then holds it against you? wow. jerk-alert. A little boy who needs to work out how to treat a woman before even contemplating a relationship.

[Catya]

hello my dear,
i am sorry to say it, but your boyfriend sounds a little controlling.
these things tend to get worse the longer you stay as a couple.
who cares if u were looking at naked pics of kanye, he is famous.
what would the reaction be if he caught you perving on a hot guy in the street??
he is out of line

[lll_demonic_lll]

maybe he just needs reassuring. maybe hes just like a woman that needs to feel secure and safe.

most problems can be solved by actually sitting down spending some time and talk about it. be serious and mean it.

try to get him to spill what hes thinking too sometimes its the communications that cause trouble.

its part of life. maybe he dont trust you enough because maybe he thinks you are so much better then him and he might lose you ?

or maybe he feels threatened because you might leave anytime any moment?

sh!t happens. sit down and talk it over.

[Sara S]

He is stupid! (No Offense) Everybody knows that celebrity nude pics are nothing and everybody has seen them. I would be like " Yes, I did what about it? I did it of my own free will and curiosity and has nothing with what you told me." and just make it on my own comebacks from there.