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Cancer Male - Is he mad at me?
09-30-2012, 04:24 PM
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Cancer Male - Is he mad at me?
Me and this guy have been talking for almost 2 weeks now. It's not long, but we've had some really good conversations and we both like each other now.
Yesterday, he got pissed off about something so he tweeted about and so I sent him a Direct Message (Private messaging on Twitter) and asked him what's wrong and if he needs me, I'm always there and he ignored that. I didn't mind because he was really angry so I gave him time to cool down. Then he came back and again, tweeted about how pissed off he was and so I sent him an extremely long message giving him advice and telling him that life's tough but he can do anything and not to let anyone being him down and stuff like that. And he never replied. It's normal because as I said, he was really upset about it, even through today. But he eventually got over it and half an hour ago, he tweeted some friends and he was in a good mood but he continued to ignore me.
Was it because I gave him advice? Cuz most guys don't like that but I couldn't help it. I always give advice, it's just in my nature.
But now I think he's mad at me and I don't know why Sad
Could it be any of his "Cancer" traits? What can I do? Please help.

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09-30-2012, 04:32 PM
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yea he mad, you mad?

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09-30-2012, 04:32 PM
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I have a lot of close Cancer friends and they can be verryyyy moody. one thing I learned is if they are not dealing w. you the first time DO NOT bug them anymore. some people cry out for attention and really want people to bug them but one sign that is not like that at all is definitely Cancer

if they ignore you leave them alone, seriously.

give him lot's of space and do not be dramatic about it.

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09-30-2012, 04:32 PM
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Without knowing the rest of his placements I'll be vague. Cancers won't open up or confide in just anyone, they have to really know you and trust you to do that. It's hard to say if he's actually mad at you, but I'm willing to bet he found your messages intrusive. If you've only been talking for two weeks, then you are not one of his close friends yet, so you need to know your place with him. Just leave him alone, if he still wants to be friends with you (or chat with you via twitter, whatever your relationship was with him), then he'll come find you when he's ready. The more you push, the more he'll resist.
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