my mom is cheating on my dad?

[jsghu]

so I am 16 years old I am from Lebanon. I lately discovered that my mother is cheating on my dad with a man who lives in another country and they prepared a date when he comes to Lebanon. she always talk to him through facebook and other social media. my dad has a doubt now but he is not certain of that, but I am cz I read all the conversations between mom and that man! I am so confused I don't know what to do! should I tell my dad or should I stay quiet or should I face my mother?? plzz can someone help me? my life is ruined now!
I love my mom so much it's so difficult for me to tell her that I knew about her situation but I love my dad even more he is a great man he doesn't deserve to be cheated on! am about to die bcz of that!!!

[Desirae]

Your life isn't ruined. It's true that you aren't going to have the same respect for her, but she is still your mother, and it doesn't change the way she feels about you. If you can, talk to her about it. Maybe you can stop her from doing something she'll regret by talking to her about it.

I wouldn't suggest going to your father. From what it sounds like, you mom hasn't actually met up with this guy yet, so technically, she hasn't cheated yet, but is planning to. Maybe your mom just doesn't feel loved by your father, and is trying to find it elsewhere.