facebook help/advise?

[Chelsea]

So I'm really into this guy, as far as I know, hes not aware of it. I see him about 2-3 times a month and we're really not that close, but we're acquaintances. hes really nice to me, and hes a really sweet guy from what I know. but, when I added him on facebook, the request was sent for a few hours, but now its back to "add friend" and it doesn't make sense to me.. why would he deny my request? So my question is, is it possible that maybe my request didn't go through? idk maybe im just denying the facts that he doesn't like me because I like him so much? ugh

[Technesia]

Try again in 2 or 3 days. Facebook may have a glitch on their system.

Don't make yourself looks desperate, guys don't like that.

[rajoo888]

There will be confusion in teen ages, some guys hit more girls, both need to be careful in relationship.Anyway body contact, shring of secrets are to be avoided.Guys flirt more.

[pri✍]

I guess he meant 'no' at this time, the reason maybe it's not you, maybe he just want to have few people as his Facebook friend, or he does not recognize your name & prof pic in Facebook.
Try again in a month if you wish to.

[James]

From what i read here, you need to keep trying. Most famously, Winston Churchill is quoted saying "never give up, never give up, never give up" and it's true, but you have to believe it and work on it. worst case scenario it doesn't work out and you will need to move on to another guy or forget this one. while you are trying ,take it slow and steady. Never seem desperate as much as you might be, it is not attractive to anyone, but do persist, just infrequently. Aqcuire the young mans number and ask him if he wants to see a film with you or arrange some kind of social gathering like a coffee in a shop somewhere, this way you can make smalltalk which may or may not lead to more serious conversation. It is highly unlikely Facebook has a glitch with a simple button "add friend" given the global status of the biggest social network ever. He denied it, I'm pretty confident with that as I have had the same done to me. It is important to know that even if people appear nice in person, they are are naturally unwilling and ignorant if they secretly don't like you but won't say it to your face, these kind of people you meet are more likely not to tell you a reason either even if you push for one. Like i said, keep trying and eventually if he doesn't reply or keeps denying your friend add, you will know he doesn' t like you ... the harsh reality maybe is that you will have to accept and move on without an explanation but not before you push infrequently for social activity like going to an arcade together, ice cream, walks in a park.. the kind of thing you see in films, the power of advertising is great ... you may even want to ask him in person why did he decline your facebook friend request in which case body language or spoken, there is no escape unless he walks away which would be a bad indication. "if you never try you'll never know" coldplay quote... i hope this was of some help to you.

[Sectimus]

He may not know that it was you sending him the request, contact him via mobile or any other form of communication and notify him that you have sent him a request