Should I friend this girl on Facebook?

[wiseman]

I'm a guy that sees this girl at church. She's my age and I'm interested in talking to her and getting to know her. I feel out of place to just walk up to her in church and talk to her.

The other day, I found her Facebook page when I was browsing through a couple of my friend's pages. I looked at their friends list and found her listed.

So would it be ok to send her a friend request or would it make me look like a stalker and freak her out? I'm very active at church and she sees me a lot, so there's a good chance she'll recognize me by my Facebook picture.

[zealousscale836]

You can send her a friend request and if she recognize it is ok. i would suggest speaking to her in person first and then adding her on Facebook. Best wishes

[Melwin Ronald]

ya go ahead send her a request its ok if she had seen you means

[Matthew]

You're afraid to walk up to her to say hello, but you're not afraid to look like a dork by sending her a friend request before you ever said your first words to her?

You see this girl all the time at church and church functions, so go up to her and say hello. You're both active in the church, so there must be SOMETHING you can talk to her about. Ask her to be on a committee, ask her opinion on a planned event...anything!

If you friend her, she will know that you have been looking for her and will be a bit confused considering you never say anything to her. It's always better to start off talking in person.