I like this girl but don't know what to do, please help a guy out would really mean a lot?

[James]

Okay well here goes...I'm in year 10 (I am 15years old) and she's in year 9 (she's 14years old) so as you can see there is already that problem of not wanting to come onto her too strong. It all started when she added me on yes, Facebook and we started talking every now and then, she'd usually say 'heyy' and we'd talk for a half hour or so, we only really talked maybe two times at this staged, I would then right s status on Facebook and she'd like it and stuff like that so yeah. I then started I dunno how or why but i'm sure you get it when I say that for some reason I started to fall for her, she was always really really pretty but I started to just find her more and more beautiful as the days went by, we got really close (As in chatted a lot not relationship kinda close) and whenever I saw her name pop up it always made me smile and go all warm inside, I realised at this point I really liked her and wanted to be with her (Relationship) even though we've never properly met, so I decided when I saw her at School I was going to really make an effort to get to know her outside of Facebook and Twitter (We also chat a lot on Twitter) but i've come to realise that I NEVER and I mean NEVER see her at School which is understandable as there's 2,000 pupils but I thought it would be that thing when you meet a new person and chat on FB you for some reason see them non stop, but I guess this isn't the case. Last week I didn't see her once, the week before I saw her for a split second when we went round the corner to go to lesson so you get it when I say I never see her. I've done all the things such as ask for her number (she gave me it but it's not really the done thing in England to call someone who we kinda text every now and then) and all those things so it's not (in my opinion) me trying to befriend her and her not wanting to but I don't know where I stand with her and because she's in the year below and I don't want to try and talk or act like I would around girls my own age because I don't wanna seem weird or anything to other people because I know she doesn't find it weird. The past week we haven't spoke and to be honest I feel as though she's been ignoring me and it hurts me so much, next year me, her and the school are going on a skii trip so I'll see her a lot then but that's so long away and I wanna get to know her now not then. She's also just 'married' someone on Facebook in her year which is what people do when they're close or good friends (Do it in England not sure about other places) but yeah not going to lie it hurt seeing it even if it isn't real and might not even mean anything. Anyway we also have this joke about grapes and it's cute I gotta admit! But yeah I just want to know what must I do? I want to be with her and I know I gotta get to know her more first but as you can see from what you've read it's hard cause I never see her, and please don't answer like 'Ask her on a date' or something like that because in England at High School it's not the done thing, although i'd love it it's just not what you do. So please help me out and give me some advice on what to do please.

And 'calling her' or 'inviting her out with some mates' I can't really do because well calling her just isn't what people do at my age (unless they're going out) and i'm not friends with her friends and she's not mates with my mates so can't do a get together where I can see her outside of school, HELP ME PLEASE!!!!

[hee3yaa]

do you know any of her friends?or maybe someone in your year who knows her well?try to befriend them and the get together outside school thing might work out.i understand what you mean about how asking her out and calling her is not the thing done,but maybe if you still talk to her on fb and twitter a lot (if you dont,then try talking again when shes online,maybe start with the cute grape joke as a greeting) then you could justt say in the middle of the convo 'we're quite good friends on this,but we never get to see each other in school!' or something a bit like that and she might say 'oh i'l see if i can see you around' im not totally sure though.just drop little hints,it will get her thinking about you,girls like that (i'm a girl btw ) maybe try to find out from her if ye have any mutual friends.that would help a lot cuz you could say 'oh it'd be some fun if we all met up as a big group sometime' it would take the pressure of both of ye to have some other people around and you can still get to know her better

[cornishprincess]

even though i'm 40 years older than you and female i still remember liking a boy in the year above me and i know he liked me as we used to sometimes walk to and from school together but we never saw each other at school because we were in different years and classes, anyway, we had a school christmas thing where everyone in the school had to do something and it didnt matter if you did it with others in other classes, so he suggested me and a few of my mates met up with him and a few of his mates, all mixed sexes, and practised a routine, over that time we all got to know each other and all or some of us ended up hanging out and no-one thought it was weird, sooooo, next year you have a skiing holiday with her class so why dont you get together some from yours and some of her class and go practise on a dry ski slope, or ask her what she has on her clothes list to take in the way of ski gear , does she know where to get the ski gear, there must be loads of questions you could ask about the trip just to break the ice, just remember, i didnt see my boy after i left school and it may be just the same for you and this girl, people change the minute you leave school, especially here in england just go a little slow and good luck.