Hacked my boyfriends facebook and found stuff?

[Coneg(:]

So I moved away from my boyfriend 2 months ago to go to college. I usually trust him but recently I've felt lied too. So I decided to check his facebook. I have his password by accident. But when I went on his profile I looked at his messages and he kept messaging and flirting with this girl trying to get her to hang out with him and drink with him like a month after I left. We have a rule where we aren't allowed to drink without each other. And I'm not allowed to have guy friends so why should I let him talk to random girls that I know he's had a crush on in the past? I want to break up with him but I don't want to tell him I hacked his facebook. What am I supposed to do? Should I just tell him?

[Alex]

Well, you've got yourself into a nice pickle haven't you?
Go ahead and call him out for it. You don't have to mention Facebook, just say that you know about the other girl.

[TEX4S]

OK first of all psycho - you didnt "hack" sh*t. So stop trying to sound all covert.

How insecure are the both of you where you have an agreement not to let each other have lives ?

You both need help - look, this relationship isnt going to last so just end it - you both dont trust one another - this relationship has no future.

[you, me and kinect]

Just tell him you don't feel like the distance is doing either of you any favors and you're finding it harder than you thought to keep the relationship the same. You don't have to tell him you looked at his Facebook if you're going to break up with him anyway.