why girls say they are busy online on facebook?

[LonestarG]

So i dated this girl once, and i think there was a good connection, then same day i texted her on facebook to see if she got home safe and yes she answered, then next day i asked how is she doing she responded, but after two days i texted her on facebook asking what she is doing she said she is busy, shall i continue texting or stop? i just have her on facebook and she still is not comfortable to give out the phone,

[Jon]

Give up man, trust me.. First of all, sadly you blew it on day one... you should not have texted her asking if she got home safe... Sadly in the dating world that is way to forward, you gotta wait atleast 2-3 days... Next it seems like you started the conversation again... try not to do that... I would stop texting her.. The ball is in her court.. she obviously knows you like her, so if she wants to show any interest she knows how to do it... She isnt busy, she just doesnt want to hang out... Trust me, if someone likes someone they will make time for them. I am sorry that i am so blunt, i have been in your shoes so many times... However when you find someone who truly likes you, you wont have to play all these stupid games.

My girl and i joke about the dating games every day and think " I wonder what would have happened if i texted you the right after we hung out"... she says "we would not be married now" .. Its true.. the dating game, how stupid it is, is a thing... Just learn from this, and apply it in the future... You probably wont truly understand how unatractive "clingyness" is untill it has happened to you... Im sure you will meet some girl who will text you the second you get home, and then none stop text you.. you will get annoyed from it and eventually say "oh i am really busy" Well good luck my friend!!!

In closing, google "How i met your mother "Clinger" episode" .. it is so funny, and explains your situation totally.