facebook help, should i add this person ?

[David]

i am a sophomore in highschool and this girl that i have a crush on is a freshman. I have never talked to her in person , but i think she is very pretty and i really want to know her. Everytime i try to talk to her i get cckblocked by friends, or she is with her mob of friends. Should i add her on facebook, like some of the stuff she posts, then PM her eventually ? Idk if its weird to PM her or not because i dont know her at all... I NEED HELP
edit : my friends are her friends on facebook too. she has 3k friends and i only have like 200 lol... she also has her phone # on her page for any 1 to take when you add her lol. not saying im going to text her right when i add her im just saying

[Scott]

Yes like her post but don't be creepy with it

[Megan]

Definitely add her as a friend on facebook...the worst that will happen is shel decline u but i highly doubt she will. Even just say hi when u see her around then it wont be as random when you PM her, and when u do pm her just tell her youv seen her around and not managed to get to speak to her and would like to get to know her a little better....good luck

[Mia]

You have to get your neck out there either way. Keep in mind girls, especially at that age, can be a bit ruthless and or confused. What might seem like her friends stopping you could really be them doing her a favor, as in she's not interested. I'm not saying that is the case but be prepared for such a scenario.

Getting a conversation with a girl is much like being a salesman. You have to open open-book questions, no yes/no responses. Do not say, "do you like this weather?" But say, "what do you think of the weather?" The second triggers a response where one must engage in conversation to some degree. Don't use this strategy over the Internet, it simply won't work.

In my opinion in person is the absolute best way to approach someone. But, if you insist on using the Internet for whatever reasons, if specifically Facebook here is what I suggest: first make your profile public(if that's okay with you), make as much available short of risking yourself into some sort of danger. Then, you message her. You can send a friend request at the same time, if you choose not to insert something into your message suggesting you would like to further communications and she should friend you. Try to relate to a previous encounter, ask if she's interested in going to an upcoming school even, ask about classes(if you must). The first thing she will do is read the message; if she hasn't already made up her mind about you she will then creep your Facebook page(see what we did there, what a brilliant trap). If you're lucky she will respond and if even more lucky request a friend add.

Anyway, through my vast knowledge of women, LOL ... who really understands them, that is what I suggest. Good luck to you!

[Lainie]

No you will want to keep your communication with her on a personal level. You want her to be more than a facebook friend so find a way to communicate with her outside of facebook.