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Is she worth my friendship anymore?
10-13-2012, 09:15 PM
Post: #1
Is she worth my friendship anymore?
I have a friend, Anna. (it's not a real name) and she has hurt me many times. But she's a really nice girl. I really want to be her friend. But sometimes, I wonder if she's even worth my friendship anymore. Here's what she has done to me that I felt was really mean.
- she b****ed about me on twitter and I could see what she posted. (she was angry at me)
- she used me to get materialistic possessions.
- she lied to me
- she is playing with my feelings
- she can be mean and nice to me on the same day
- she leaves me out when she's with her other two friends, Jan and Valerie
- she talked bad about me when I was within earshot and claimed that she didn't say anything
- well, there's a lot more but those are the more important ones.

here's what she did for me that I felt was really nice
- we could chat with each other for like 2 hours straight (now she doesn't even bother replying my messages)
- she would confide in me secrets no one knows
- she gave me a note on valentines day and she apologised for hurting me Smile (I was really touched)
- she would tease me and I would tease her back (basically "bullying" each other)
- that's pretty much all the nice things she ever did for me

and now, she's ignoring my messages and she doesn't seem to care about me anymore. I'm growing depressed because she really means a lot to me as a friend and I really want to stay friends with her. What should I do? Should I just leave her and find other friends? Is she worth my friendship anymore? or should I just forgive her for the mean things she has done to me and just move on in this friendship? Please help! Thank you if you've answered! Smile
It's hard for me to talk to her about this kind of stuff because she's not the emotional type...

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10-13-2012, 09:23 PM
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Tell her to GTF she can't be trusted. The secrets you told her she probably has told. You should be angry at her for using you. Please don't disrespect yourself and try to be friends with someone who doesn't like you.

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10-13-2012, 09:23 PM
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Leave her and find other friends. Sorry, but it seems like she has done more bad for you than good, and the little good things she does could never make up for all the really bad things she does. I know you think she's nice, but if she acts like that than she's truly not. There is plenty of other nice people around, and they're probably all a lot nicer than she'll ever be. Break your somewhat "friendship" before she does something really bad that could hurt you or something like that. I'm sorry, and I know it might be hard, but hang in there. You'll probably have a blast with some new or old friends (maybe both) and realise you don't need trouble and stress like her in your life.
I hope this helps! Smile
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10-13-2012, 09:23 PM
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Dude give this frndship a brake..
Stop talking to her for few months keep distance, Ignore her, when she around make her feel she not there at all.
After few weeks she will also be desperate to talk with u then it ur turn and ur call...
Women have this basic problem that "they don't know what they want".
Sometimes u need to put ur loved one's through pain so that they understand how it feels like to be HURT...
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10-13-2012, 09:23 PM
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Get a new "friend".
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10-13-2012, 09:23 PM
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Just open her dresses while she is sleeping and confirm if she has a hole or a stump. If it is a hole, you need not to bother. You can marry her, even if she poison you, for your emotional need. It would be nice to die during intercourse and immediately on discharging your energy. She won't react for your need. But, you should marry another one to have a family, wife and children.
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